Question for BLACK WOMEN that have dated WHITE MEN........?

Question

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When you dated white men did you get a lot of ugly stares or racist/hateful comments from whiteWOMEN?

/curious

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Answer 1

No I didn't but if I ever do I don't notice.

Answer 2

I'm Ethiopian & dated a white man briefly, when I was with him I didn't get many stares from white women, the stares I got were from black men believe it or not. If anything, most of the stares (from other people) were from what seemed like genuine curiosity & not hatred. Long live interracial relationships.

Answer 3

My partner is white and I have never experienced any negativity from white women.

Answer 4

I've dated mostly white men, and I'm mixed with black and white.  

No, white women weren't the ones who gave ugly stares and comments.  Guess who did?  Black women!  Those were the ones who hated and couldn't mind their own business.  I'll leave it at that.

Answer 5

When will we start thinking that love does not recognize the color of the skin ?

Why is white and black such a distinction ?

As if gender disntinctions were not enough how much farhter should we go?

If black women fall in love with women and white womenwith black women than so be it !!!!

Answer 6

Not really, or if I did I didn't really pay attention. I  did have a few women where I used to work make (negative) comments about my now ex boyfriend, but they were eyeballing him before he asked me out, I don't know maybe they were mad he asked the only black girl working at the place out instead of them.  For the most part however people have seemed to be pretty cool with it. I don't think it's such a big deal anymore, of course it might be different depending on where you live.

Answer 7

No, quite the opposite, well maybe a few but only when we went out to like the mall. Never at restaurants, never at the clubs not a lot of places.

Answer 8

Sometimes. But not necessarily from white women. I got looks from all races and sexes.

Ask me if I gave a care.

I live for me. Not them.

Answer 9

yes i have. but what really gets me is when i got them from SOME black women! Crazy isnt it?

Answer 10

You know, I never did. And oddly I never felt uncomfortable, enough though I grew up in a place where you just didn't date outside your race.

Answer 11

During my first marriage in the 80s, yes.  

Now, hardly ever...or at least I'm not self-conscious enough to notice.

Answer 12

Can I answer as a Latin woman who dates white men???I tend to attract white men and Latino men but,

I prefer white men, dunno why I just do, but I get criticized by Latin men and many times comment that "she thinks she's white" or I get called an "Oreo/coconut".

Its disgusting!

At times it makes me feel bad, but I cant help it. I love the white boys.

And forget about dating black men, we get criticized even worse. Some Latin men (older) will say "Once you go black we don't want you back"