Question for college guys?

Question

What do you think when a girl tells you she's a virgin (not the "wait until marriage" type, more of the "wait for the right guy")? Do you respect her for it? Think it makes her hotter? Or think of it as embarassing that she's "inexperienced," or somewhat intimidating? Tell me what you think.

Answer 1

That she's a liar. She's just trying to get laid by you, so she can brag to all her girlfriends.

Answer 2

most women like to lost their virginity later cuz they want to wait for the right guy

Answer 3

Most women wish they lost their virginity later.  If a girl's waiting for the right guy, more power to her!  It's intimidating if they choose you because you want it to be good for her (even though in all likelihood it'll be bad until she figures out what she likes), but that gets worked out eventually.  It's never bad to err on the side of waiting.

Answer 4

i typically think they are a liar and don't believe them take it as a flirting

Answer 5

lots of women wait for the right guy. who know you might be that right guy. ask her and talk to her about s*x.and see if she is ready or not.

Answer 6

Actually, I prefer girls that are virgins in college...and i've met plenty of verryyy attractive ones. It shows that the girl is not only not a s**t, but also that she has self control and self awareness. I definitely have a lot more respect for them..an attractive girl usually has an infinite number of opportunities to have s*x at whatever age they choose....its not easy to resist temptation and all your friends.

I waited until last year, my Freshmen year of college, to have s*x. And no, im not some tool that couldn't get laid in high school. I had plenty of hookups, and did everything but s*x... but I just never felt it necessary to lose my virginity. And let me tell you... its a h**l of a lot more embarassing for guys to be virgins than it is for girls.

I guess its kinda cause theres such a build up to the first time... and you only get one of them... I figured that I might as well wait for it to be absolutely spectacular...not just alright. There were actually quite a few drunken occasions where I would flat out have to turn a girl down for s*x.

I don't think too many guys would run the other way if you told them. Most would probably just be eager to be your first time. A guy would probably feel pretty special if you waited all that time and lost it to him.

Answer 7

Depends on how she tells me, is she wearing it on her shirtsleeve like some type of badge of honor?, or did it come up after the relationship started to get serious?  If she is comfortable with being a virgin at that age, then I give her a lot of credit.  She must be a strong person not to give in to peer pressure.

Answer 8

I think at this point it's alittle strange. if she hasn't gotten laid by college then she must be f**ked in the head somehow.