Question for guys 17 and older...?

Question

List these items in order of importance please.

-Career

-Family

-Friends

-Girlfriend/fiance/wife (please tell me which category she fits into --- if you don't have one, just put it in the order it would be if you did)

-Fitness

-Sports

-Accomplishing goals (such as buying a house, getting a promotion, finishing degree, etc.)

-College

-Partying

If you think of anything else to add to that list, go ahead and put it in with a short explanation... Thanks =)

Answer 1

Family

Friends

Colllege

Career

Girlfriend

Sports

Fitness

Goals

Partying

Answer 2

1.fiance

2.family

3.college

4.career

5.goals

6.friends

7.fitness

8.sports

9.partying

Answer 3

family

college

career

friends

fitness

partying

Answer 4

If I was in a serious relationship here is how it would be:

Girlfriend

Family (mum, dad and sibling)

Friends

Personal health

Career/education

Sports

Partying.

Because I am not in a relationship right now it's more like this:

Family

Friends

Personal health

Career/education

Traveling

Looking for a potential girlfriend

Sports

Partying.

Yeah the older we get, the women become more important.  I would say that most guys under aged 25 just want to have fun and play the field.  By 25 they think about finding a serious girlfriend who could be a potential wife material but most guys I know don't want to get married before 30 (least here in London) if they can help it.

Goals are so important to have.  If you don't have targets in mind then you won't get very far because without them you lack direction.  Without direction you don't know where you are going.  You would be wandering aimlessly in life.  I like to set goals and then plan on how I am going to achieve them.

Answer 5

you must adopt an new thinking paradigm.

There is no one "that is more important than the other"

You know Girl/friend/fiancee/wife is family.

In fact in the family list she better be at the top - yes over parents and siblings.

As life progresses you will realize that these "things" must be juggled.

Each will have it's time when it will need attention.

Ignore your job - it will be gone

ignore school - fail

this is the time for you to learn about written goals in life.

Research it, write out your goals

that will help you to assign priorities.

You will learn, as life goes on, the number "balls to be juggled", increases.