Question for men only..(but I know women will answer...?

Question

... because that think they know everything).

Men: since your marriage, the ultimate humiliation any man could have ever endured, have you had the feeling that your life has been sucked right out of your body? Do you find yourself wondering what your 'life' would be like if you had never uttered those two words, "I do"? Does living in a hospice with tubes up your nose at age 70 seem almost like a visit to Club Med vs marriage?

Answer 1

As a married woman, I want to comment on your question.

Although it is quite sad, I have some female friends who control their husbands like children and in no way do I support them.  Sometimes they won't even "allow" them to go fishing and it's pathetic!  

My husband and I are best friends and mesh well so I know he doesn't feel like these girls' husbands do which is awesome :)

EDIT:  Every state is different.  Whether a man has a "backbone" or not, some just can't afford to leave their marriage.  Some women will take them for all they've got!

Answer 2

WAH! WAH! WAH! get over it! and move on! and its good to know you finally got some back bone to leave her congratulation's!

Answer 3

Well Cowboy Bill, it sounds to me like you've been watching too much

of that movie called " Brokeback Mountain ". Later partner!

Answer 4

d**n how long did it take her to denut you?

Answer 5

get hard man. if you let your woman get away with treating you like that its your own fault. what did you do to her to make her turn nasty.

Answer 6

Oh dear.

Harriet

Answer 7

well put.  not in every case and not all the time but when they decide to make your life miserable they do take some sadistic pleasure in doing it.  

Answer 8

hey guess what you shovanistic unintelligent disgrace to all men in the world: SOMETIMES MEN MAKE WOMAN FEEL THAT WAY TOO!!

Answer 9

And you asked this question because you knew women were going to answer right?

Answer 10

You just described all my married friends.  But to your second point, its usually the fact that they feel they cant afford to leave because of kids, possible alimony, etc...

Answer 11

find a women that treats you good not all of us are like that you know just like all guys aren't alcoholics that beat women and there kids

Answer 12

Well, if that is how you feel, like I tell women get some self-esteem and get out of that relationship.

Answer 13

Inside marriage, I think there's no such things called self-esteem.

I'm as a wife, sometimes i treat my hushband or he treats me like a kids. That is because he/she knows your weak point, he/she can't bear to see you in miserable, he/she can forseen something might happen.

Try to imagine, if this person didn't concern and worry so much about you, will he/she get mad, gone crazy because sometimes you didn't listen to their advise?

Sometimes, rewind your memory.. ask yourself... why you married her in that moment?? I'm sure, she got something which really attract you.

However, come to the real life, we got so much to overcome. Finance, family, envrionment etc..... She can't be as gentle as before,... she can't talk soft just like before...  But are you treat her still as before???

Plan a holidays, get away with her...  

Answer 14

Get out...now!!!