Question for older men who ever had an affair with a younger woman?

Question

doing research for womens and genders studies class and need info.

its regarding the anatomy of affairs.

1- when an older man is physically involved with a younger woman, does the thought ever cross his mind "wow, this younger girl likes me and i am getting old." ?

2- does it make him feel mentally or physically younger?

3- does he secretly hope it will never end? or go on indefinitely?

4-does he wonder "why does she like me?"

5-is there some other thought process that runs thru his mind?

thank you very much.

Answer 1

Believe me, there isn't a "thought process" running through his mind.

Answer 2

not really -- we had such a great time doing stuff together!!

maybe but i  was always in great shape and i still think like a child -- life is wonderful

i did not think it would be accidents do happen

not really - i thought it was very normal

not really --- looking back wish we had had a child!!!

Answer 3

Only affair I've ever had in my married life was with an older woman. They're more appreciative and trustworthy.

Answer 4

1. Yes

2. Yes

3. No.

4. No. Obviously because of my kicking looks!

5. I hope she doesn't catch my STD's.

Answer 5

1, Yes

2, No, just the opposite

3, Depends on the woman

4, Yes

5, Again, depends on the relationship, if its just an affair, who cares?

    If its a proper relationship well, the questions, fears and doubts could fill a book

Answer 6

1 - Yes.

2 - You bet.

3 - Yes, and it's not even secretly.

4 - No.

5 - Not really.  Being older gives the guy much more to offer a younger woman.  Even if it doesn't last forever, she has a lot to gain during the time they are together.  

Like any relationship, there has to be honesty and these questions need to be out in the open or it will end badly for sure.

Answer 7

I see an assumption here that men have affairs as a given fact of life. You are completely wrong about that. I always made it home... never any messing around and no near misses. That is also true among my circle of friends. Stalwart husbands and fathers all. So if you proceed from the premise that affairs are given then your study is is flawed.

Answer 8

1.  He's just on Cloud 9, he for awhile forgets the age

2.  sure,

3.   yes he hopes it will never end for first few months, then he starts getting a few reality checks,

4.   he thinks he's the greatest w/her on his arm, he begins then to look closely in the mirror, and when he is offered SC discounts, she isn't, thats a rude awakening

5.   HE's tired w/ many questions, misses his previous life style

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 9

I think, Wow, look what god has sent me, he might get mad if I don't enjoy it.

Answer 10

1- when an older man is physically involved with a younger woman, does the thought ever cross his mind "wow, this younger girl likes me and i am getting old." ? - No

2- does it make him feel mentally or physically younger? - Neither

3- does he secretly hope it will never end? or go on indefinitely? - Not me, I knew it wouldn't. Common sense.

4-does he wonder "why does she like me?" - No, guys don't think like that.

5-is there some other thought process that runs thru his mind? -Only s*x

You're welcome.