Question for single parent families only please.

Question

do you think when chosing between 2 people to settle down with, you should pick the better option for the kids or the one you love the most?

Answer 1

neither...you have to find someone who you love and who is good for your kids as well.  

Answer 2

i think that u should choose the 1 that u love and not for the kids, but the kids have to like him also, whats more important to u, being happy or having a role model for ur kids, it should mesh together...i wouldnt want someone who was dishonest or a bad influance on my kids and u shouldnt want that for ur self either..

Answer 3

Well my children come first... I would go with the one that gets on well with the children first and foremost... Its nice to be loved and the rest of it but it's also good that he accepts your kids too.. And accepts the fact how important your children are to you..

Answer 4

If you are single you can be selfish enough to find the one you love.  If you have children you must put your child's welfare first, above all else.

Answer 5

that is a tough question...in this case you should go for what you love because if you have the kids who get jealous easily than they only want to be with you..so you should go for what believe in but someone is right for the family