Question for teen parents??

Question

when your children r older do they give you a hard time about having a kid so young, my daughter is 7 months and im pregnant with triplets, im 14, i know i have a long time before my kids start to wonder and get obnoxiuos about having them at my age, but do they ever? i mean my oldest has absolouty no right to becouse she was no choice of having s*x being a result of rape, but my triplets? im dreading this day soo much!

Answer 1

You're 14 and pregnant a second time with triplets?

Will your v****a just fall out after this?

You need to get on some BC, girl.

Disgusting. And dangerous.

Answer 2

Hey girl :)  God I hope Zoey, Kat and the baby don't give me a hard time, but I'll for sure give them one! I really hope they don't become teen parents, it's hard, and I know you know. I hope my girls (and Kaylor, and the triplets!) have fun while they're teens. I love the girls, I really do, but don't you ever wish you had like, just 5 minutes to be a kid again? Talk to you later. xo

Answer 3

Wow, I guess you did not learn your lesson after your first.  Your parents must be so proud!

Answer 4

Well, its possible. I'm only fifteen and i have a ot of siblings. And i don't think they're going to get mad or anything they might just make it as a joke. Like with my mom she had my older sister before their wedding, and when my moms around my sister i would say "Hey meg, how was mom's wedding" and she said "not that bad actually" and my mom would get annoyed but laugh. And I'm sorry to hear you were raped. And good luck with the triplets, hope they're all healthy!

Answer 5

don't worry about that answer now. You are only 14 and will have plenty of time to think about the answer to that question. Simply let them know that their birth was not planned and made things really tough for you and that you don't wasn't them to have to make the same sacrifices that you did at this age if it isn't necessary. This is not a simple question to answer and you will know what to say  when the time comes.

Answer 6

No matter how old  you were when you had your children, they have no right what so ever to comment on it..

Answer 7

umm i hope youre joking!!

but if not, you would be able to give your kids a first hand account on how difficult it is being a teen mother and how brave and strong you are for doing it and getting through it.

Answer 8

umm well if your being honest about being raped and haveing your child then i commend you for keeping her.. but well dont dread the day of your children's birth, you may think you do but when that day comes you will love them soooooo much.. and if they give you a hard time then so be it they have a right to because we were young.... but hey jsut explain to them that you feel it was a bad idea.. as long as you are honest to them they are more likely to understand and listen to what you say, instead of yelling at them and telling them they are dumb because then they jsut think your being a hypocrit....

hope for the best.

Answer 9

Fine, good luck.

Godbless you and your children.