Question for the ladies?

Question

On the street when guys call to you, look at you or try to look at you, what do you do. You know what I mean, esp. when you look pretty that's when they seem to fiend. I'm only 13 going on 14 so I've just started to bloosuem so this is something new to me, but for all you other ladies, what do you do and what should I do? I was thinking about wearing a black mini dress tomorrow but I don't want that type of attention, ahould I wear what I want anyway?

Answer 1

Everyone should feel free to wear what they want without fear of being called out for it. It happened to me yesterday. First the guy howled at me, and I just looked away. Then he said, "Bye, nice to meet you" as he drove away, and I flipped him off. No harm done.

Answer 2

Hmmm i would try to play hard to get or show off lol hope it helps.

Answer 3

fall

Answer 4

I don't pay them any attention.

Answer 5

Keep walking.  At that age, boys don't want anything but to put their hands up your skirt and that type of behavior doesn't stop anytime soon!  Remember to always carry yourself like a lady and if a guy can't treat you like one, keep it moving and don't bother with him.  There is nothing wrong with talking to guys, but if they something disrespectful or something that makes your uncomfortable, its time to end the conversation.  Puberty is hard, but before you know it, it will be over.  Ignore most of them or just say hello and keep walking.

Answer 6

i don't pay attention to that. my brain is busy with more important stuff so i do not hear what anyone says.sometimes it's not the best thing to do but i just can't help it.

p.s by the way when you think the way you are thinking, people perceive you that way.

Answer 7

  if its just a little whistle or something, i smile and continue where ever im walking to.

  if it escalates into full on gawking or hooting and holloring or horn honking or something, i ignore it and try to leave or at least go somewhere where the person causing the problem isnt.

  like,its dumb.  im usually fully coverd, always wearing jeans, and usually a hoodie cause i am ALWAYS cold (poor circulation) but some guys still say stuff.  its dumb.  

Answer 8

You are still a child. How about if you wear a pair of capris and your Hanna Montana t-shirt instead? Where are your parents?