Question for those uncircumsized

Question

I am trying to catch my girlfriend in what I think is a lie. 2 months after we met she was really wanting to have s*x with me without a condom (unlike other times). She says she hates the feeling of condoms. Seemed weird to me, and made me wonder since she has gone out with 6 other guys, one of witch was a serious one (1 year 8 months, then he hit her). if she has done it without a condom with other people.She says she hasnt, but I dont think I believe it, and im trying to catch her in a lie hopefully. I am circumsized so I wouldnt know but she said that whenever she had s*x with her ex he always had to pull out and pull the skin down. Now if he wore a condom is that even posible to move the skin back??? For you guys that are uncircumsized, do you have to pull the skin back when wearing a condom do you have to do that when u dont wear a condom??

She says that she wanted to do it without a condom with me was because she really liked me a lot and hates what they feel like, but im sure she really liked her ex. And im worried they did it without a condom and she is just covering up what she said a while back.

Answer 1

When I have s*x with a condom (I am uncircumsised) occasionally the condom would bunch between the f******n and the head and if I wasn't so frisky I would have to stop and pulled the skin back as this can actually pull the condom up from base and if you go to long it can pull it right up and off occasionally (hence the birth of my daughter lol). Im not sure if this problem is particular to all uncircumsised guys but it was for me (although not everytime).

You don't have to pull it back when when not wearing a condom and one article I read (see below) says that apart from protection of the p***s and keeping the head sensitive one of the reasons the f******n evolved is because when trying to enter with f******n rolled up it actually makes the entering alot easier especially if she isn't wet yet.

As for whether she's lying or not, I wouldn't worry to much. Its a minor thing to get hung up on - there are far more important things to worry about. If your worried about STD's then ask her to get tested as even if everythings perfect condoms are only effective protection 90% of the time, let alone if it keeps coming up from the base like in her situation. Offer to go along with her and get tested as well.

Also all that bullsh*t above about uncut guys carrying more STD's isn't true. There is the smallest increase in the risk factor (like 0.1 of 1%) but ulitmately its who you stick it into that counts. Women are far more likely to catch STD's from men (uncut or not) than the other way around simply due to their anatomy. Also the US (where the majority of guys are cut) has a much higher prevalence of STD's than both Europe and down here in Australia where the majority of guys are uncut.

Answer 2

Are you worried because of STD's or ego?  If it's the former, be open and communicative.  If it's the later, who cares?  Grow up and deal.

Answer 3

Dude as far as the uncircumsized part when we put a condom on it is suggested that we pull back the skin and roll it on but usually the skin will move back in postion and move with the condom. Doing the deed without a condom some dudes get hard and the skin comes back automaticly for me it gets hard and stays forward all i do is insert and the skin will pull back as it goes in. now the loose skin aids in the in and out motion compared to a cut dude that doesn't have that extra skin to slide up and down the shaft

curtdude  

Answer 4

with foreskins you pull the skin back, unroll the condom, pull the skin forward and then unroll the rest of the condom

but nothing needs to be done different after that

Answer 5

I'd go with Prodigial Mouse's answer.

Answer 6

Dude, if she has had unprotected s*x with an uncut guy she is more than likely an HPV carrier! Don't have unprotected s*x with her!

Answer 7

never have s*x without a condom no matter what she says

Answer 8

I have no kdea what she is talking about, when I put on a condom I pull the skin back, unroll the condom to just past the f******n and let the skin slide back over the head of my p***s and then finish unrolling. When I have s*x I pull the skin back before entering  because it is easier to penetrate that way, but never had to pull out to move my f******n forward or back. The skin naturally slides back and forth while inside her. I think she is trying to trap you will a child, I would still use a condom untill I was ready to be a dad.

Answer 9

either way with or without a condom if you are uncircumsized the skin needs to be pulled back.

Answer 10

Most uncut guys do not need to stop and adjust the skin under a condom but it's possible her ex did if he put the condom on wrong or something. So just based on that you can't tell if she's lying or not I'm sorry.

However you are right it's possible with lots of previous sexual partners and saying she doesn't like the feel of condoms she could have done it without a condom with one or more of them and I suggest you don't have s*x without a condom with her until you've both been tested clean for STIs.

Harriet

Answer 11

If you're in a relationship with a girl and you can't even trust her, you definitely shouldn't be having s*x with her. Trust is key to a relationship, especially if it's with a significant other, I could understand if it was purely sexual, but since it's your girlfriend, you should probably examine your relationship and put the sexual aspects on hold for a while. Though, it's entirely your call.

Answer 12

ok