Question/help about an Aquarius girl.. Confusing me..Crush factor..

Question

I know this is a little long, I apologize.. I just need to know what I should do, back off or keep trying.. She is an Aqaurius sun, scorpio moon. age 17.

Alright I don't know what to do with this girl. She is driving me crazy bc I can't figure her out and understand what she wants from me. I feel like she likes me when we are together, but when we aren't together is when the mixed signals come into play. I haven't told her that I have feelings for her..

It seems like she flirts a lot with me at work (only place we see each other) but when we text each other, it seems to be mixed. She always texts me to see if I am working. But whenever I text her first to talk with her, she is either short or stops replying to me. And I am very distant in contacting her, waiting a week or so. I don't like to annoy people. So I give her space. Well she recently told me she is quiting the job (after changing her mind about it a billion times.) I said I'll miss her. She said "I'll miss youu but you have my number we'll have to hang out one day ha."

So, I waited a week and asked her to hang out on the following day. She said yeah sure. The next day I asked if she still wanted to hang out, but didn't respond. I waited 3 hours and asked one more time, she said that she was asleep but had to ask her mom because she is supposed to be grounded. I said "alright, it's cool if you can't." Well she never got back to me to let me know if she could or not. I haven't heard from her since Monday. So what is going on? Has she lost interest? Should I let her go? Or should I keep trying asking her what is up? And if you need to read what her actions have been towards me, here it is..

Constant eye contact when we are around each other that shifts between stares and a look where she quickly looks down if walking by me. Caught her once with a little smile as she looked down. (before we started talking)

Shy and nervous around me before talking and getting to know each other.

Sometimes walks past me and looks back at me to see if I am looking at her.

Turns her head to look back at me when I am standing behind her from afar, multiple times.

Walked out to our cars together and when we spilt to go different ways, I looked back over to her to see if she would look back at me and she did.. was from a distance.

Sometimes will stand in front of me in a s**y way, pushing her butt out so that I will look at her. She looks back at me when she is doing it.(could be my imagination, but doubt it)

Once we started talking to each other...Have paused in conversation and stared into each other's eyes for about 4 secs then she smiles and says "what."

Playfully hits me, Says to me "I just want to hit you." Pushes me playfully and when I tease her she says "I hate you" with a smile.

Giggles like crazy when we are together. And sometimes says things that doesn't make any sense when she is in a giggly state.

If I am walking behind her, she will turn her head and look back at me with a little smile and flips her hair a bit.

Has Brushed up against me with her chest multiple times. And sometimes will stay there against me for a few secs.

Stands really close to me.

Always texts to ask if I am working when she is working.

Follows me around work. Always asking me to help her with something.

I was on vacation for a week, and people said she was "crying" bc I wasn't there. When I came back she texted to see if I was working that day. I said yes and she said " me too :) I get to seee youu"

Answer 1

First of all, what sign are you? If this is an astrological question, your information would be very helpful.

Secondly, I must warn you about Scorpio moons. Although there are always exceptions, people with Scorpio moon can really have a darkside, or a manipulative somewhat sadistic side. Watch out for her because she could fool you easily, about anything.

It even makes things more complicated she's an Aquarius sun, because Aquarians tend to be good hearted people who like to help others but don't want any emotional attachment.

My advice is unless you REALLY REALLY like her and think she REALLY REALLY could or does like you, try to keep things on a platonic level or you could get hurt.

-some advice from a Scorpio sun Gemini moon girl who's 17

Good luck!

Answer 2

sounds to me like she is leading you on. she is VERY flirty, and in my opnion inapropiate. she probably likes you and wants you to make a move on her. which i don't think you should. infact, it think you should drop the relationship for the most part. whatever you do, do not touch her. leading to inpurity will only make matters worse

best of luck to you

Answer 3

As a fellow Scorpio moon, I can tell you she's probably afraid of liking you too much, especially if she's an Aquarius sun. Emotions are subjective and illogical, you see, the domain of the water signs. Aquarius is all about the logical and the rational. They're idealistic, sure, they want "to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony. (they'd) like to build the world a home and furnish it with love", but that concern for humanity the only kind of emotional engagement they're comfortable with unless they're really comfortable around someone.

Now back to the Scorpio moon for a second. We feel things quite deeply, you see, and we learn fairly early on that not everyone has emotions quite as intense as ours, so we will sometimes do this thing where we interact with someone, and we are genuinely interested in them, but just at the moment we start to feel something too deeply, we pull away.

It would help if I had your astrological data, but just keep talking to her, let her know that you're emotionally available, but don't try to be too serious because she still has that pesky Aquarius sun (and I mean that with the upmost affection. I have loved every Aquarius I've ever come into contact with), and she'll be less awkward around you after awhile. It sounds like she's into you without a doubt.

@Standby: A scorpio moon, flirty? Nah. We don't s***w around like that unless we like someone.