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Question

I live in north Florida, been with my girlfriend for the past year, Im 25, she is 21, and just got a conditional job offer with a Police Dept in North Georgia, 7 hours away. She's in the process of finishing community college and wants to pursue that instead of moving. I might not get another chance at a job offer like this and don't want to hold her back. My life is at a stand still right now, boring, working jobs I hate and just waiting to get on with a PD, same routine everyday here and I just wanna move. What do you all think??

Answer 1

I say make the move and get on with your life and forget this one.  It sounds like she's not that comitted to you anyway.  You'll find other girlfriends and be a happier boyfriend doing other things in life that fulfill you.  You have to make yourself happy before you can do that for anyone else.  If you're not happy, you'll end up getting aggraviated with her.  Go ahead and make the move north, bro.

Answer 2

personally ithink its your descion bacause we donnot know the nature of your relationship. do you love her? you must be able to be understanding and compromising to eachother, you have to talk this through as a couple