Question .....?

Question

if someone missed a chance in life cuz he hesitated or just panicked .. does it mean God didn't intend it or he is just messed up ? what if he didn't fight for something he wanted ?? will there ever be a second chance ??

Answer 1

Yes we miss chances by hesitation, and I believe that God creates our fate according to his wisdom, he decides whether to let someone do something or not.

but I always remember that as we miss good chances we also miss bad chances, it goes both ways, there are many bad things that could have happend to us if we took some decisions but we didn't. So what is important is our intentions and our reaction to fate, if our actions started with good intention and ended with acceptance of God's will then we will find peace in our heart.

Al-Isra [17:11]

وَيَدْعُ الإِنسَانُ بِالشَّرِّ دُعَاءهُ بِالْخَيْرِ وَكَانَ الإِنسَانُ عَجُولاً

As it is, man [often] prays for things that are bad as if he were praying for something that is good: [12] for man is prone to be hasty [in his judgments].

WayadAAu alinsanu bialshsharri duAAaahu bialkhayri wakana alinsanu AAajoolan

Al-A'raf [7:188]          

قُل لاَّ أَمْلِكُ لِنَفْسِي نَفْعًا وَلاَ ضَرًّا إِلاَّ مَا شَاء اللّهُ وَلَوْ كُنتُ أَعْلَمُ الْغَيْبَ لاَسْتَكْثَرْتُ مِنَ الْخَيْرِ وَمَا مَسَّنِيَ السُّوءُ إِنْ أَنَاْ إِلاَّ نَذِيرٌ وَبَشِيرٌ لِّقَوْمٍ يُؤْمِنُونَ

Qul la amliku linafsee nafAAan wala darran illa ma shaa Allahu walaw kuntu aAAlamu alghayba laistakthartu mina alkhayri wama massaniya alssooo in ana illa natheerun wabasheerun liqawmin yuminoona

7:188 Say: "I have no power over any good or harm to myself except as Allah willeth. If I had knowledge of the unseen, I should have multiplied all good, and no evil should have touched me: I am but a warner, and a bringer of glad tidings to those who have faith."

Answer 2

you just messed up ! there will always be second chances! keep up the good fight things may turn out in the end dont give up on your dreams!

Answer 3

What a question..... actually my favorite type of questions...

Okay the first part, if you missed a chance in life for whatever reason then simply u missed it, look we make our own chances with our choices and actions.... it is normal to mess up, be hesitant, question, fear or even overlook the obvious.

Now your destiny is already known from the day yr born, whom you ll meet what you ll face, who you ll love and who you will marry..... it is all written and all known.... but we choose the path we take to reach those points in our lives.

Look Angelo, it is never too late to right a wrong.... only if it's meant to be, if not then no matter how much you try, nothing will change.

Cheer up.

Edit: @ Aster sorry Rafiki..... that was a beautiful answer.... thank you.

Answer 4

It means that god didn't intend it for you "and" you messed up. that's the beauty of it all.

I believe in second chances, and third for that matter.

Sting has this song about hesitation, I'll try to look it up for you.....

"Seven Days"

"Seven Days" was all she wrote

A kind of ultimatum note

She gave to me, she gave to me

When I thought the field had cleared

It seems another suit appeared

To challenge me, woe is me

Though I hate to make a choice

My options are decreasing mostly rapidly

Well we'll see

I don't think she'd bluff this time

I really have to make her mine

It's plain to see

It's him or me

Monday, I could wait till Tuesday

If I make up my mind

Wednesday would be fine, Thursday's on my mind

Friday'd give me time, Saturday could wait

But Sunday'd be too late

The fact that he's six feet ten

Might instill fear in other men

But not in me, The Mighty Flea (flee?)

Ask if I am mouse or man

The mirror squeaked, away I ran

He'll murder me in time for his tea

Does it bother me at all

My rival is Neanderthal, it makes me think

Perhaps I need a drink

IQ is no problem here

We won't be playing Scrabble for her hand I fear

I need that beer

Monday, I could wait till Tuesday

If I make up my mind

Wednesday would be fine, Thursday's on my mind

Friday'd give me time, Saturday could wait

But Sunday'd be too late

Seven days will quickly go

The fact remains, I love her so

Seven days, so many ways

But I can't run away

Monday, I could wait till Tuesday

If I make up my mind

Wednesday would be fine, Thursday's on my mind

Friday'd give me time, Saturday could wait

But Sunday'd be too late

Do I have to tell a story

Of a thousand rainy days since we first met

It's a big enough umbrella

But it's always me that ends up getting wet

Answer 5

i believe so much in fate & destiny

if u missed a chance, whatever was the reason u missed it ,be sure it was never for your benefit

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

" و عسي أن تكرهوا شيئا و هو خير لكم .. و عسي أن تحبوا شيئا و هو شر لكم .. و الله يعلم و أنتم لا تعلمون "ا

صدق الله العظيم

i believe in this verse sooooooo much ...

but i can't deny that sometimes i feel sooo bad & sad coz i missed a certain chance...but then i reconsider alhamdulelah :)