Question regarding an ex?

Question

My fiance (or ex fiance should I say) just had a falling out. It was a huge scene at my house because he threatened to kill himself if I left (obviously and attention ploy). However there were thousands of cops at our house that day and he was baker acted for the whole threatening to kill himself with his gun if I left. Well here is the thing I haven't spoken to him in about 3 months and I still cannot seem to let go. I miss him so much. I mean I want to spend the rest of my life with this person. I cannot shake him though. I mean everyone hates him now, my family and friends, and it would be so hard to get him back into everyone's good graces.

So here is my question...

Do you think it is a good idea to call him too see how he is doing or should I just leave it alone and move on (easier said than done)?? Because I can't seem to give up on him.

Answer 1

why do you want to talk to him. Do not call him, and even ask hows he doing/

Answer 2

It's been three months, and you are still trying to heal. It's like a death in the family when you loose someone you love. He is still alive, but sometimes break up's are harder to let go than a real death. Move forward and don't look back. The healing process is still working on you. He needs help, but I don't believe it's the kind of help you can provide. Don't look back, just move forward. One day you will be thankful that you did

Answer 3

let it go. What is the matter with you he has some serious issues