Question to anyone that's married. mainly a quesiton for guys?

Question

Why did you get married? Why did you sign a contract that entitled someone else to a % of what you will make in your life? Couldn't you have just not gotten married and stayed together if you really loved each other?

I think marriage is just plain out stupid but i am wondering why people do it left and right. The reason why i think marriage is just wrong is because it's just human nature to get bored of having chicken for dinner everyday no matter how you spice it up, it's still chicken, thus it's destined to fail and even if it doesn't you are going to l ive the rest of your life unhappy and for what?

Answer 1

I'm married, and She's my Lady!...I think of her with great pride in her, and value!

Many people who get married set up and sign a prenuptual agreement so that they understand where they are going if the marriage fails. It is a way to make sure that if 2 people to their own way that they contiue from where they were B4 the other person came into their life, with what is a fair share of what was accumulated during the time together. That way you aren't stuck with a % of what you make for the rest of your life.

If you decide to live with one of these chickens for 6 month I believe, then common law cuts in and you are in the same boat with that lady that you would be if you had said "I do", and made an ink stain on paper. Common law makes her the same as your legal wife, so you can't just move chickens in and out of the hen house to keep it exciting! Hahaha!

It's lower human nature to go get bored, but higher human nature to invest and put some planning and effort into keeping it from getting boring! That's where marriage is good! Two people in a sense make a promise to each other that they will do their best to keep life hot and exciting above all other people and activities in life, as much as many of them don't realize what it is that they are committing to?

It shouldn't be about saying a few fancy or sentemental words to get the not tied...It's about promising stuff to each other.

With the way that you view marriage, for sure don't do it at this time..It will fail ..no doubt!

When you have more life experience and "fall hopelessly in Love", you will have a revelation and a shift in paradyme! Hahaha!

You just have never been there yet Dude! Hahaha!   It for sure doesn't make you a bad person!

Hoping the best for you Man!

Me! :- )

Answer 2

the key word in your question is "I". Marriage isn't about what you can get out of it, but what you can give to someone else. If both partners have this attitude then there will be less problems and things would be a lot more fun.

Answer 3

It is every little girls dream to grow up get married to the man she LOVES and wear a beautiful wedding dress.

I'm sorry if you don't feel that way:(

Answer 4

well i'm not married or anything. im only 14. but i had to say i agree with you. It's not that being with the same person eventually gets old, because thats not ALWAYS the case, but i think marriage is just getting stupider and stupider. I'm only going to get married if i know im with someone that i would die without, or for.

Answer 5

Marriage in this country is a joke! One big farce.