Question to girls only, can't ask my gf. need your help?

Question

Hi, i was with my gf and when i tried to "go in" it seemed to me it didn't want to let me in. What i mean is that my p***s (was erect) could not penetrate like there is nowhere to go. it kept bending (missionary position). She told me "it" didn't want it. When i tried with the fingers it was very difficult to put 2 fingers so i put only one.

I was with another girl one time and i didn't have this problem it went in without any problem, even sometimes not fully erect and would get strong inside.

What is wrong with me? I kind afraid to discuss it with her. maybe someone can give a clue what happened? THank you and apologies for such intimate question and such details.

Answer 1

She may not have been turned on -or 'wet'- enough for you to go in easily.

This may have been because she wasn't relaxed.

Answer 2

how old are you?

Answer 3

IS SHE A VIRGIN??/

if not, its just that she was not horny enough and she was dry. try to make her relax.

Answer 4

if shes having this problem maybe shes not ready, shes probably afraid, or she just hasn't had puberty yet. or maybe the muscles down there just afrent ready for it. maybe you two should wait until you both are comfortable, if you cant talk to her about this then you two aren't ready.

the other girl you were with probably has done this before, and was used to it. your current girlfriend obviously hasn't.  so talk to her and find out whats going on. if you cant, then dont even bother tyingg to have s*x.

Answer 5

Go to the drugstore or pharmacy and buy either KY jelly or astroglide. Rub it on your pee-pee and "IT" will get in there!!!!

Answer 6

LUBE...  LOTS OF LUBE...    COOKING OIL, BUTTER, MAYONAISE etc. will get it in.

Answer 7

First, if you can't discuss this with your girlfriend, you two aren't ready for s*x.

Second, you can try more foreplay, like kissing and touching to get her excited.  Or, go out and buy some lubricant to help.  Or, go much more slowly and gently with your fingers to loosen her up.

Talk to her, man.  If you can't, you got bigger problems.

Answer 8

there is something where your v****a closes up to not let anything in. something like sexual abuse may have happened to her and this is why it is happening.

Answer 9

You cannot have s*x unless you are turned on.  She needs to be relaxed and lubricated down there in order for it to go in o.k.  She was probably not turned on enough due to being tense or nervous.  If you have problems getting it in, use your spit or ky jelly and that should do the trick.  

Answer 10

Is she over the age of 11?

Answer 11

Lube. Use lots of it. She's probably too tight. My boyfriend and I had that problem for a long time but eventually her insides will form the shape of your soldier & it'll get easier.

EDIT:

I agree that you should be able to talk to her about it. Afterall, you two are sharing one of the most intimite acts.

Answer 12

Why would you not talk to her about this situation?  If you are both having problems then you need to work it out together.  However, based on your prior question here on women's health I don't know what to believe.  If you are having ED issues then how can you blame this problem solely on your girlfriend?  The bottom line is that you have to tell us the truth for anyone to render a complete answer.  

Answer 13

It has nothing to do with your p***s. She was clamping down with her muscles.

Answer 14

I think it's her.

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Answer 15

Well Maybe you Should Finger her For starters

dont just rush it , fore play is everything !

Answer 16

Sounds like she's either a virgin or she was tense and didn't feel comfortable having s*x.  When a women tenses up her vaginal wall  will tighten up making it difficult for a man to enter.  Offer her more foreplay to loosen her up and make her more comfortable or try some lubrication

Answer 17

May be she's still a virgin. A girl who's never has s*x before their opening down there is very tight and protected with a thin membrane. It's quite painful for the girl's first time. Another reason is lack of secretion which make the area very dry and difficult for penetration.

Answer 18

she has a very small "hole" apparently there's not much you can do to fix that to my knowledge

Answer 19

She is probably just not ready for s*x.  Unless you are totally ready, relaxed and into it your body can tense up making entry impossible.

Answer 20

you had tried to have s*x with more than one person.

you could of had a std and something spiritual didn't want to give it to her

Answer 21

Maybe she was tense and nervous and not allowing for penetration.