Questions about Premature Ejaculation?

Question

I'm not real sure if I have PE, but I will say that I can last about 20mins. And PE is when the male comes before he wants to or before his partner. I've read that some guys barely last 20secs-1min, no offense to them at all...just not sure if I have PE or not and I'm comparing. I guess I have a question when it comes to this part. When guys say they only last 20secs, does that mean they only last 20secs of vigorous thrusting before coming? Or just 20 secs before they come, alternating between fast and slow?

Also when trying to learn how to beat PE, does the way you m********e matter? I know its better to do it during s*x obviously, but when in my spare time I try to learn how to last longer through masturbation as well. Which brought me to my question, meaning do you have to m********e using your hand? Or is it just as effective using other methods of masturbation? For example...the most common way guys m********e is using their hands going up and down. For me, I rub against my matress in bed. I even tried using my hands a few times, and I don't feel anything...I could go for hours and not feel anything from it. Even with lube I didnt get any feeling from it for doing it for an hour. It felt nice but not enough to make me even come close coming. After reading other guy's stories about it, and how people m********e, how long they last and so on, I really think its all in our head. I say that because when I rub against my matress, it comes alot faster than using my hand with lube. Masturbating with your hand with lube feels alot nicer down there, just not the coming feeling if that makes sense. Maybe I'm just not use to doing it that way or I'm wierd...but when I read that some guys come in a few seconds masturbating like that....all I thought was "wth?". Thanks in advance for the replies.

Answer 1

well how i controlled my problem is i visited my doctor and he told me to go to the land of bunnies and find the bunny king, after fining the bunny king he told me to stick a banana in my ear and the problem was fixed instantly!!!!  

Answer 2

If your lasting 20 mins you have NOTHING to worry about :)

Answer 3

You have the WRONG IDEA of what Premature Ejaculation is! Premature Ejaculation is when you ejaculate a small amount of s***n before you start sexual intercourse - which for males is BRILLIANT as this works as extra lubricant! When ever you Ejaculate after that is just called Ejaculation. Listen - a normal period to ejaculate for a man would be 10 to 30 min while in sexual intercourse. THERE IS NOTHING TO GET WORRIED ABOUT! Your p***s is how it should be! Nothing is wrong with it!

Answer 4

It's nice that you want to last a long time, but if you last forever, the girl will feel as if she doesn't do a thing for you.  If I were you, I'd let myself get of after 20 minutes, recharge, and go at it again.  You'll last longer the second time, anyhow...usually.

Answer 5

premature ejaculation is when you cant control when you ejaculate often without physical stimulation. if you can last 20 seconds or 20 minutes but still control it, then you dont have it.