Questions about a first boyfriend?

Question

Im 13 and i've been going out with this guy for a few days. the problem is He already went out with a few girls. but he is my very first boyfriend. We only see each other in school, so i'm not sure how to act with him. should I hug him? hold hands? also what are good things to talk about?

Answer 1

Well if your completely comfortable with him, you should just find things natural to talk about but if your not ( i once had a boyfriend i couldn't talk to about anything) Thee things like music, people, school, Sport, things he likes. And if your planning on having him round to yours then the first few times invite friends (who are also going out) round to. Until the awkwardness gos away, then you can be with him on your own for ages :) x

Answer 2

I think holding hands at the hallways is cute and not too much. dont hurry with kissing cose you will see that if you really love him u will find the write moment but he can or you can kiss you and that is really cute. hugging is ok, but not for 2 long. Hoped I haleped!

Answer 3

Yeah you can hug him and hold hands. Don't be scared too.

Hugging and holding hands is nothing compared too what some kids do. Im 16 right now and my first boyfriend was in like no joke kindergarden and we were holding hands lol. But like i said just be your self. Don't be nervous or scared cause then he might think your not ready to have a boyfriend. <3 goood luck. message me if you want,

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Answer 4

Just try to act like yourself don't worry and you can talk about anything school, hobbies whatever. If he hasn't yet hold your hand and stuff well then what are you waiting for hold it first. It might make you feel very nervous but hey what do you have to loose your just going to hold his hand for now of course.

Answer 5

Hugging and holding hands is fine. Dont be one of those girls that makes out with your bf in the hallway, cuz that will just make you look bad!

Answer 6

Just go with the flow. Dont' think too much into it. If you feel like holding hands in the hallway, just do it. :) However, if you want to kiss him, you should find out what his comfort zone is. Some guys don't like public displays of affection especially in school where they may get embarrassed. If he's one of them, dont' take it personal. :)

Answer 7

i had my first bf at 11 and we went all the way.

Answer 8

Just be yourself. Hold hands, hug, but don't make out with him in the hall ways like that other person said. The subjects that you talk about, you could talk about anything. Just be yourself. Smile at him, kid with him, laugh with him, just be yourself and have a good time. Things will come to you when you are with him.  

Answer 9

well, when i was your age i had the same situation(im a boy by the way) where i had my first girlfriend and she had had a few in the past.   yes you should hold hands and hug him because that is what he will be expecting off a girlfriend. the only problem is then is if you are shy. now if you are shy a few good things to say are things like "hows your day been today?" or "doing anything interesting over the weekend?". hope everything works for you and oh yeah, talk about school and movies and things. you should flirt with him while your around him too. hope this helped.