Questions for the "other woman". how many of you actually got the man to leave his wife and be happy with yo?

Question

and only you? when did he finally leave his wife and family for you? did you guys get married and lived happily? if not why?

Answer 1

I'll answer for mine, yes she got the man she wanted, and yes we got married, and it is now going on 17 years!

Answer 2

my dad is still with mistress after 20+ years.. I lost track of when they "really" got together...

Answer 3

Marriage to the affair partner has a 75% divorce rate.

Probable reasons:  Guilt over destroying first marriage,  and absolute certainty that your new spouse really cannot be trusted-as you both cheated already!

Percentage of marriages that survive infidelity (where the spouse KNOWS about it)-60%.

He says he loves you but when he has to choose,  odds are he'll choose her.

Answer 4

I just learned i was "the other woman" a couple days ago. I'm so hurt b cuz i had made so many plans with this man for OUR future.



He is married in another country with 2 children and was dating me for 5 months. We were talking about marriage, kids, and living together.

Why would I want to be the other woman?! I don't care if he leaves his wife b cuz i was only the other woman and was never THE woman of his life.

What starts wrong ends wrong. And it doesn't matter how you see it, want to see it, or put it b cuz it will never work. If you were once the "other woman" what makes you think he won't cheat on you too???

Answer 5

Wouldnt want a man that was married to another woman.  Once a cheater always a cheater.

Answer 6

well iam not quite the other woman but i sure did a number on him when he comes to his ex-fiance . yep we ve been married for 5 years ,dated for one . and we are living happily . he even thanked me  

Answer 7

I was seeing a married man, almost 9 years ago. I think that it is so wrong and I would never do it again. I gues I did it then just b/c I was so young. I don't really know.

I became really close to him, then we became more than friends. He even introduced me to his wife so that she and I could become friends so he and I could see each other more.

Eventually she found out. I feel so terrible for what I did.

Did he ever leave his wife? Yes. But, he only left her after the truth came out...he waited too late. I had moved on by that time. So he decided he would go back to her. I am glad he did. B/c if he could do her like that then he would do me like that.

She was a very dear friend and I lost her. I didn't realize until the end that she was more important to me. Being the "other woman" is horrible and believe me it will come back on you. So I would call it quits and find a man that can be with me and me only.  

Answer 8

I know some people end up marrying the mistress, but those relationships usually don't last. Why? Because if he'll cheat on his wife WITH you, he obviously has no problem cheating ON you when you're his wife. Besides, who wants to knowingly commit adultery, be the Other Woman, or a Homewrecker? Some of us have morals. But unfortunately, there are some women with very low self-esteem who enjoy the attentions of a bored married man and have no problem sneaking around and breaking a legal and spiritual covenant. The mere fact that the mistress didn't take vows makes them no less innocent - that is why divorce decrees often contain a correspondent. And if you do end up together, don't be surprised when he finally gets bored with you to and seeks the comfort of another younger, naive, selfish adultress. What comes around goes around.