Quick, how do i tell my older sister i crossdress.

Question

my sister and i are home alone, how do i tell her that i wear her clothes?

Answer 1

You shouldn't be wearing her clothes without permission.

Ask her permission and see if she agrees.  Just tell her you're curious.

Answer 2

Here is an idea.  Tell your sister that the Japanese have some really strange ideas for TV game shows.  One of them is where these guys compete by crossdressing and seeing who scores the highest points.  Share this video with your sister.  Some of those Japanese guys are pretty cute!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaLVZjKEx...

After looking at this and some others with your sister and having a good laugh.   Then ask your sister, "how hard is this?"  She will probably ask something like "are you volunteering?"  You should respond with, "I think it would be fun, but I wouldn't want any of my friends to find out."  You and her could discuss what you could do and then give it a try.

Or, after seeing the videos say something like, "I have got to try this out..  Could I borrow one of your dresses?"  See what she says.

After you give it one try you will be better able to judge how your sister responds to the idea of you borrowing her clothes.  If she asks you how you like wearing her clothes admit that you enjoy it and you wish that social convention was more open to the idea of boys wearing dresses.

Answer 3

Dont tell her!! and why r u doing it???!!

Answer 4

If you trust her, be blunt. Just be ready for when she tells your parents.  

Answer 5

If it is your own clothes, not hers that you are wearing, there is no need to tell her.

Or maybe tag along with her while she is shopping and see how she reacts to you showing an interest in her choice of clothes.

Answer 6

why do you have to tell her?

just ask her if you can borrow money, and if she asks why, say that you wanna buy your own girl clothes so you can stop wearing hers.

Answer 7

dont tell her

Answer 8

that's something you don't really share with people. Kind of like looking at p**n, it's more to yourself.  

Answer 9

Get ready for a fight because your sister will FREAK OUT!  Just tell her what you have been doing and tell her why.  She will think you have lost your mind and maybe even think you are just joking with her.  I know how I would feel.  It's just best to honest though.

Answer 10

why tell her? if you can really trust her, then go ahead, but I know from experience, that if you tell someone something and they are your friend at the time, then they turn, she could tell everyone. But i guess tht it all depends on how much you trust her.

Answer 11

ooh just tell her i suppose try and pick a quiet time

can you trust her?

will she tell people you really would rather didn't know?

Will she see you differently and treat you with less respect?

will she throw it in your face or use it against you?

think about it v.carefully

is there anyone else you could tell instead to release the stress your secret?

go for therapy first to discuss the pros and cons ideally with a counselor/therapist who has dealt witht this before.

good luck if this isnt a joke!!

Answer 12

If you stop wearing her clothes, you won't need to tell her. Buy your own. If your short on money, get them at a thrift shop.