Quite a few Questions, HELP?

Question

I have been working from home because I am on bed rest. I am 28 weeks and now everytime I sit up straight I am getting sharp pains in both of my sides. At first I thought it was one of the babies but then an ultra sound showed that all three of them were closer to my left side, yet i am still in pain. What should I do and what could be causing this?

Also, my son is almost 4 and weighs 30 or so pounds. Is it okay if i still pick him up and hold him?

And last, we are naming our triplets if they are girls

Salem Paige

Rachel Dallas

Lillian Sadler

But my son is set on one of his sister's being named Ariel off of the Little Mermaid. What should I tell him? and any other suggestions on middle names for Rachel??

Thanks a ton.

Answer 1

hmmm... i gotta agree, "ariel" doesn't fit with any of the name or i'd say tack it on as a third.

my daughter's name is

saari (my mom's choice and quite meaningful and clever)

anastasia (her dad's choice)

yuna (my second daughter's choice)

parvati (my bil's request)

and then a hyphenated last name.

i figure it said on the form you could use as many names as fit the blank box so go for it, lol.

what if you just legally went with the name you want and then you can just call her ariel until he gets tired of it?  no, too many names won't confuse her.  my niece has five names and we don't use any of them unless she's in truuuuuuuu-bull.  otherwise, we call her "peanut", "squeaky", and "monkey bean".

as for picking him up, i am about 12wks pregnant and before we found out my baby is probably dead, i was told it was okay to pick up my 35lb 15mo old if she's awake but not asleep.  reason is because seh can assist while she's awake but 35lb dead weight is too dangerous when one is a high risk pregnancy.

the sharp pains you're getting are probably tissues and tendons stretching out.