R u married to one person but wish you had married another?

Question

R u married to one person but wish you had married another?

Answer 1

nope . i dont have any regrets at all .

Answer 2

I use to feel that way, but we have since got back together and now I would not trade him for anything. He is a great catch. It took some growing up on my part to realize that.

Answer 3

No. I dated several people before I met my husband. Would have never married them just to get married. I'm very happy with my husband.

Together 15 years. Married for 10.  

Answer 4

yes if i would have waited a few more months i would have the man i am currently having an affair with who has been my lover for the past 20 yrs on and off

Answer 5

I think that thought pops into anyones mind that's been married long enough.

notice I say "pops" in.

Answer 6

Yes I am happily married to the person I want to be married to he is the best thing that has happened to me and I wouldn't change it for the world.

Answer 7

I guess the way to look at it is that it's not abnormal. It depends on how long you have been married and whether you are happy or not. IF you are not happy, you are bound to wish you had married the other person.

There is nothing wrong in feeling that way. My solution thought is ot to build on those broken bricks but to see how I can strengthen what I have try to make your marriage better, try to enjoy, try to make the best you can even when the other party is not, so that when it eventually breaks, you are not guilty but you can honestly say you did your very best.