REAL NEED OF HELP here!?

Question

ok so heres the thing me and my bf have been going out for 6 months now and i love him so much alot he is my first love my first everything and lately i feel like he doesn't want much to do with me

i feel like were going to break up

we don't hang out as much he doesn't call me as much

and i want to know is there anything i can do specifics

like start going out more doing my thing

not call him as much anything like that?

Answer 1

dear francis,

m really sorry to read ur questions.

if u love him truly and want to make sure that u will do ur best to preserve ur love then.....

1--- go and talk to him...ask him wats hapening?alwaz be frank.be confident on ur feelings. let him know that ur seeing some recent distance between both of u.

     ask him if anythings bothering him...

try ur best,,try try try and give ur best shot to understand the situation.....coz it has hapnd to me also...i kept asking..never got the answer..but finally oneday i found out that my galfrn has already been dating a guy for over four months....then still i tried to get her back thinking that it was a mistake of her and she myt realise it..but she didnt and i gave up...i tried coz i have truly loved her..but she didnt come back saying she is feeling pity for that new guuy...so i gave up...i cried alot....but still told myself...that i tried my best....so in the future i dont have to regret....

therfore please do wat i say if u think is helpfulll....god bbless ur love.

Answer 2

You got it girl... I know you love your guy and he's your first boyfriend but maybe your suffocating him and he needs space.  Its normal to want to be under your man 24/7 but after awhile it gets old.  Have your own life outside of him and I know that is hard but you can do it...

Answer 3

Maybe just talk to him and if he wants some space give it to him.

Answer 4

honestly just talk to him.. i sometimes feel this way with my boyfriend so i set him aside and tell him how i feel.. he cant read ur mind and if u feel something tell him b.c u might be misinturrprting it u know? something may be on his mind or he may be scared of u thinking hes too clingy so the best way is to just tell him how u feel and let him explain.. make sure he tells it to u into ur eyes to know hes serious

( good luck hoped i helped)

Answer 5

give him a blowjayy=]

Answer 6

You had a great 6 month of relationship and now you both have to change with the relationship. Initially it feels all good and rite and then slowly the reality sunks in. You start analysing your partner and decide if you really like him/her or not. Maybe your BF is going thru such times.

One other parameter is, do you guys still have as fun when you are together so that has died down. if not then reinvent your relationship, do acivities, have fun and then see if he gives you more time. If not then move on with this and find a new BF. if it does, then enjoy...

Answer 7

omg guurrrrl i totes understand wear u r comin from guurrl it cn be so hard sometime

hes probly cheatin on u tru story it happened 2 me

my bf was cheatin on me with my bffffffffff and my sistah 4 life

do you pleaz ur man enough like oral? cuz sometime thats why they leavin

i feel 4 u and i hope you find another man who will treet you rite b/c u totes deserve it im sorry and i no its hard but its just hard

f-ck guys they

always do this sh-t u kno they do and why you thinkin they dont move on

lezzies 4 evas evas

love u grrrl