Ramadan Section: What is the best way to?

Question

Sometimes be mean. What is a good way to vent frustrations without backbiting or hurting someone else's feelings. I don't think its good to store it, so is there a good way to vent some hate speech, without harm? It's like there is a weight on my head.. :|

Answer 1

Write it down.

Make a letter, and never send it.

Answer 2

When I feel I want to "back bite" someone, I usually talk smack about that person to my husband :P That usually gets my frustrations out. .

Answer 3

Go into a small room and shout and yell till your pleased =)

Or if you are religious I heard that reading the Quaran would help calm you down..

For me, It's Yahoo Answers +)

Answer 4

Heavy physical exercise works for me. Find a punching bag and go for it.  

Answer 5

Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow minded people..

Its a bad feeling, just don't "feed" it.. Cause it'll grow...and when it grows too much.. :/

Answer 6

Read the Quran verses 9:5  and 9:29, lol.  

Answer 7

Salam for you my dear friend.The best way to vent frustrations without hurting someone else's feeling is just make a wudhu and then pray sunnah 2 raka'ats and make a du'a that Allah will fogive him/her and open his/her heart to the right path.If he/she is your close friend it is better you tell him/her what words make hurt to your feeling in order he/she ask for forgiveness to you and he/she does not make the same mistake in the futurre.

You must forget his/her bad words and you forgive him/her so you can treat him/her well without anger..Insya Allah.

Answer 8

Its OK, you can backbite about me. I won't mind xP

Go on do it. You've done it before so you can do it again!

LOL

Answer 9

Speak to the person about the issues you have, you never know you may overcome what is troubling you, I sometimes find this quite useful and helps me. Obviously I would not scream and insult them, but just express how I am feeling towards them.