Rape dream? What does this mean?

Question

In my dream, I was meant to meet a male friend for a coffee. Meanwhile, I was already out at restaurant alone & I see a man-friend I really fancy with another girl coming in to the restaurant - he does not see me - or perhaps he does. I think he does like me too but I'm not sure ... Suddenly I realise Im meant to be at another cafe to meet a friend & I hurry to leave. Next thing is Im getting a taxi & a friend (I dont know which friend??) is supposed to be getting this taxi with me. I get into the taxi & instead there is a strange male passenger & driver. My friend got the taxi behind me instead - with the man-friend I fancy & his date! My taxi goes in a different direction! The taxi stops & parks - suddenly there's about 5 or 6 men - & I the only female. I feel very scared, I try call out for help, try ask taxi driver to take me away but he just plays deaf & counts his money - the men look at me as tho they plan to rape me, 1 man starts ... I panic. What does this mean?

Answer 1

what did you weatch last night

it could mean you are scared, i dont know much about your life or whats going on, maybe you had a lot on your mind.

Answer 2

Well, theres more to your dream that you left out..But every detail to your dream is important..But I will try to what you gave me ..

Dreaming about being raped is a nightmare that inflicts fear and anxiety upon recall. Since rape is a brutal and deeply personal violation, it suggests that the dreamer may be feeling robbed of options and negated as a human being. In a dream, as in real life, rape have very little to do with s*x. It is about power, control, anger, and other very destructive emotions. In order to understand this dream, you may need to think about the areas of your life that causes you great anxiety and fear. If you are superstitious, take this dream as a warning. Take precautions, protect yourself emotionally and physically and don't engage in careless behaviors. If you were a rape victim, the traumatic nature of this experience may cause you to have a dream like this from time to time.

To dream that rape has been committed among your acquaintances, denotes that you will be shocked at the distress of some of your friends.

For a young woman to dream that she has been the victim of rape, foretells that she will have troubles, which will wound her pride, and her lover will be estranged

This dream could mean that a dreamer is looking for aggressive s*x. In general, the dream about rape is a sign that others are ignoring your feelings and desires, or you are ignoring theirs. It is better to take this dream seriously and to avoid any strange acquaintances and unknown places for a while. Also try to be cautious with any agreements and finances since you can be "used" here as well.

Dreams of rape are dreams of violence. As a dreamer, you may find yourself as an aggressor, victim, or spectator to the crime. In dreams of this nature, your role and feelings about the others in the event are crucial to understanding the meaning of the dream. If you have recurring dreams of being the victim of rape, you should try to determine if post-traumatic stress is a factor in your dreams.

Being a victim in a non-recurring rape dream usually indicates a message that you are being personally violated, thwarted, or ruthlessly exploited in waking life. In dreams of this nature, the aggressor is a faceless adversary. This could be explained by the fact that people who get close enough to us in life to exploit us often are significant to us in other, more positive ways. The dream is not meant to have an actual aggressor, but simply serve as a warning that you're being overpowered.

In a woman's dream, rape may represent either (unconscious) fears of s*x or (masochistic) fantasies of being raped.

Answer 3

Your dream suggests some anxieties about your relationships and insecurities about how steadfast your support network may be.

The theme is full of friends - and disturbing disconnections that leave you vulnerable to a naturally projected scene of fear and harm.  You should consider how you fit into the dynamics of your friendships and the activities you are all engaged in.

You should also consider your feelings for this other fellow (if your fancying him is truly a waking fact).  That you are slowly cut from the friendly herd and whisked along into the hands of criminals indicates that your knight has failed you - he's ridden off on his horse with another.  You may wish him to know the awful thing that would befall you because of his absence.  No, you do not openly blame him in the dream - but in your mind he seems to have had a duty and isn't paying attention as he should - much to your detriment.

All of this points back to some insecurities about how you view your attachment to friends and how you believe they see and regard you.  They are very casual here and you slip through the cracks.  

Think about this wakefully - and consider what you might do to alleviate the feeling.  Are there behaviors you could improve to both convey and feel a stronger sense of security around them?  Can you sort out the feelings for this other fellow and resolve to either approach him, or let him go as 'not workable'?

These are just general ideas suggested by what you've shared, but perhaps they will help.  You know the context of your life - that must be applied.

All the best to you.

Answer 4

A well-described dream, easy to follow, but not easy to interpret.

My feeling is that you are attracted to men, but unconsciously believe that there are obstacles to intimacy that you can't overcome. Part of the difficulty may (MAY) be that you have a fear of men.

A significant element of the dream may be the fact that the only men you are interested in in the dream are (a) unavailable--with another woman or (b) inaccessible--in a coffee shop that you can't get to. You may too easily rule out getting to know men because you classify them early on as unavailable.