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Rate his behavior? (My husband's)?

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My husband and I were coming back from Ct, where we spent the weekend with family. We had had some arguments on Sunday but on the way back I asked him if he was upset and he said "no." Then as he was driving, I asked if we could stop at a gas station because I had to go go the bathroom. He did not answer me, although he heard me. I though he was going to stop int he next exit. To make sure, I repeated it, asking him to please stop because I had to pee. Then when the next exit came he missed it, looked at the sign that signaled it, and kept going. I looked at him in disbelief. He didn't say a word. I said "Thanks!!!" really loud. He didn't answer. His brother, who was seating in the back, started feeling uncomfortable. The next exit was far. Then I started readjusting my seatbelt because it was pressing on my belly and I was feeling like I really had to pee. only then did my husband say "We'll take the next exit." I had to run out of the car to get to the bathroom at the gas station when we arrived. I was feeling deeply upset and hurt but didn't want to make a scene because the brother and our son were in the car. Now he has still not apologized, and told me that "I made him angry," thus his behavior. Opinions please?

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  1. LOL!


  2. You need to talk to your husband and tell him when he has a bug up his a$$ he needs to talk it out right then and there and not brood about it like a petulant child, his behavior was ridiculous juvenile and immature. He needs to grow up.

  3. I would be furious with him.  You weren't asking for anything unreasonable.

  4. He's passive-aggressive. It's hard to live with such people. They always pout, feel offended, give you silent treatment and then retaliate to get back at you and blame you for that.

  5. Sounds like you made him angry by trying to control where he stopped the car.  He made sure HE was in control by determining which exit he stopped at.

  6. Your husband is acting like an immature *****...big time.  Tell him if he wants to be treated like a man to act like a man, because that stunt he pulled was straight up Juvenile Central.  Then no s*x for him for 2 days...well maybe 1, but i really like s*x!

  7. Your husband is very immature and obviously not a good communicator and passive aggressive.  What a jerk.

  8. 1. He lied to you when he said he wasn't upset.

    2. He has a mean, punishing streak. He didn't stop when you needed to..

    3. Will he take a swing at you the next time you "make him angry?"  

  9. Sorry hon, you married a little boy, not a grown man.


  10. it seems quite clear that he did that just to get even with you and that is wrong. don't wait until he comes to you to apologize go to him and tell him that what he did was wrong and that you are deeply hurt from it and demand that he gives you an explanation for what he did.

  11. Sounds like an idiotic husband to me. Maybe you could've just peed on the car seat and have him clean it afterwards..

  12. I rate it a 3. He needs to grow up...just so immature and obnoxious. Way to deal with your anger Buddy.

  13. he sounds bi-polar .

  14. That was childish.  He was angry so he wanted you to suffer.  Doing this in front of others just shows the childish behavior even more.  Unfortunately during fights and arguments 2 things happen a lot.  The first is to say your not mad when you really are.  This is common and drives me nuts in my husband at times.  The other is to try and make you suffer because they are hurt.  They want you to feel bad like them.  I would just sit down and talk things out with your husband and let him know that you feel he was being hurtful and then move on.  He may not apologize but you can at least let him know your feelings on this and move forward.

  15. Your husband was being very inconsiderate of you.  You cannot control your bladder no more than he can control his.  I bet he would pull over in a heart beat if he had to go.  He was being very immature and hateful.  I would be hurt too.  However, I would not do or say much about it.  Maybe later in the day when both have calmed down and then I would ask him what was running through his mind to make him do that to you.

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