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*(Read details.) This weirdo wont leave me alone! What should I do?

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There is this guy that lives near my mom.

He just turned 18.

I'm 15.

He's really weird... and not in a good way.

He has a little sister who texted herself from my phone to get my cell phone number, and she gave it to him and without even asking me, he started sending me lots of text messages and calling me.

I begged me to hang out but I refused.

And one day I gave in and just hung out with.

I told him, "I'm only staying for 15 minutes." and in 15 minutes I left, and he followed me home and begged me not to leave. I kept going and he grabbed my shoulders and sqeezed them and tried dragging me back, but I still went home.

I told him to stay away from me and never call or text my phone again. I have seriously told him this in person, over the phone, and through text message AT LEAST 20 times.

He always asks me to hang out with him, and I say no.

He asked me to be his girlfriend, I said "F*ck no!" and he keeps begging me.

I yell at him to leave me alone. He just wont.

This has gone on for at least 2 months now.

It is SO ANNOYING.

HELP.

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  1. You have to be sure that you are really serious about this. I say this because there's a lot of young girls who say a boy is annoying them but they secretly enjoy the attention. If it were really bothering u, u would have seeked the help of someone else.

    Well, if it really is that big of an issue, u should talk to his sister and tell her to speak to him. Don't joke with her. Tell her seriously not nicely and just ignore him whenever he texts or calls u. Ignore him EVERYTIME.

    U should also tell your mom or dad, if this situation really is serious before its too late and that boy does something crazy.


  2. You should tell your boyfriend,maybe he will give that crazy guy a little talk.

    Then if that doesn't work,tell your parents.

    If he still bothers you,then go to the police.

    He is invading you privacy.

  3. omg thats scarey well trie one more time hanging out one more time.Somtimes that happens to people  and one person thinks other person is crazey then they trie it agine and it works then they fall in love.It sounds like he loves you alote.And if he dose somthing crazy the next time get proof like record it then shoe poe poe!!!!

  4. Call the police.

    Have him charged with stalking.

    That can be good for 5 years in prison.

  5. Try talking to his parents. If that doesn't work you can call the police and file harassment charges. You must have proof that he is harassing you. Keep the text messages and phone calls, also voice mail for proof.  Good luck..

  6. get one of your friends thats a dude to hang out wiht you a little bit. it might help if hes g*y because you wont have to worry about him likin you from hangin out or w.e but thats a good way to send a clear message to a dude tahts infatuated with you. or if the your friends not g*y just let him know that you need him to to just hang around so the kid realizes your interested in someone else.

    if it persists then honestly call the cops,talk to the parents, if you kno anybody that knows him thats sane explain to them whats goin on and they should explain to him and hed understand it better since its someone he is cool with.  

  7. Try calling the police.

  8. You need to start ignoring this guy, you can change your number, stop answering his messages, phone calls, emails. etc. If that doesnt work and still bothers you, you can get a restraining order against him. He will realize that you are not interested.

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