Read this and see if you can relate to any of this please. if so, I'd love to hear your story.
When I was 21, I met a guy who I stayed with for 8 years. He came home one day and said he didn't love me anymore. 6 months later, he was married. I was devastated. I found a place to live and shortly after, met a great guy. 6 months after we started dating, he got afraid of commitment.
Now, a little over a year later, we are still seeing each other but not committed to one another --- allthough I would love to be. He isn't meaning to, but is stringing me along. I love him so therefore am having a hard time listening to my head and not my heart the whole time. He has a lot of friends and has a hard time balancing me and them along with work. And to make it somewhat worse, we live 6 blks. away from one another. I love him with all of my heart. I want him to be the one i marry. But right now, the feeling isn't mutual. he's going through counseling to help figure out what he wants but it's taking sometime. i, on the other hand, don't have a lot of friends. and the ones i have are married with children or single and live in another city. i am so bored so much of my time and struggle to make new friends --- not sure what i should do to find more. isn't there a support group for people like me --- lonely and who wants to make friends?! i try to meet guys but none interest me and the ones that do, are into games. aaahhhh. besides, i have NO interest in being with someone other than him. how can you be with someone when your heart is with someone else?
when i was with my ex of 8 years, i lost touch with all my college friends and we all went our separate ways for various reasons. now, it's just me and my dog. it's pretty sad. i'm no where i want to be in life. almost 33 and NO WHERE i planned on being.
what are your thoughts. can you relate? please no rude or mean comments.
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