Ready for s*x?

Question

I feell like this is in awkward topic. But anyway I cant stop thinking about having s*x, and thinking about if I'm ready. I'm in high school this coming year, so I'm a teen. I know how stupid of a thing it is to have s*x young, but I still cant kick the thought out of my mind. I think that if I was in the situation where, I was alone with a guy....I would crumble. Which kind of scares me. I just feel like I wanna have s*x, but I dont wanna get pregnant. I know that is stupid, for obvious reasons.Not to mention I'm a soccer player and something like that would ruin my playing soccer. So does anyone have any experiences they can sure with me or any advice?

Answer 1

OH MY GOD.

Do you mean you're JUST STARTING HIGH SCHOOL? As in, you're 14?

PLEASE. DON'T DO IT.

You have absolutely no idea what you're getting into. First of all, you can hate me all you want, but you're still a kid in high school. You don't know much about responsibility yet and that includes how to deal with both the physical and emotional ramifications of s*x.

And your reason for wanting to do it is proof that you're not ready. "I feel like I just wanna have s*x." That's...pretty much the worst reason ever. At least be in a somewhat committed relationship first.

Ugh.

Answer 2

dont do it. No matter what never be alone w/ a guy .

Answer 3

well considering you're going to be a freshman which means you're 13 or 14 DO NOT have s*x at all. you need to learn self control and believe me...its a phase...you'll get over it. been there done that and it passes.

Answer 4

If you're that worried about it ruining your soccer playing abilities and that you know it is a stupid thing to do then DON'T DO IT. Don't put yourself in situations where you're alone with a guy ever. Keep it in your pants. You're NOT ready for s*x.

Answer 5

If you do not want to get pregnant, do not have s*x. Simple as that.

Answer 6

Well you asked for advice Katrina, so here is honest advice. Anyone can tell you that it's a bad idea, but you already know that, and no doubt the temptation is intense.

So what should you do..? First of all, Don't be alone with a guy, when you hangout or go somewhere, have other friends around you. I have found some good information for you to try to suppress s*x. (Won't be too easy though). Also search Yahoo answers, there are already lots of questions on this topic.

It's an admirable thing that you have at least attempted to do something about your feelings. Lot of people just give in to their desires, and then regret it later. I wish you the best of luck Katrina.

Answer 7

Looking back... i would have waited. I really wish i would have. Temptation is hard, but try not to put yourself in that situation. It only takes once to get pregnant and it's for the rest of your life. Lots of responsibility. If you are serious then i would consider getting on birth control. But your young sweetie. You have the rest of your life. Share it with the person you will spend the rest of your life with.

Answer 8

There area lot of things to consider before you make up your mind about having s*x. You need to know all of the downfalls of s*x like, pregnancy, stds....you know some stds you carry with you for the rest of your life. I talked to my neice about this when she has s*x questions and I'm going to do this the same way I handled her. I want you to visit these following links becasue these are real pictures and it really does happen. After looking at the pictures and you feel that you are ready to handle any consequence that comes from s*x than go for it. Not trying to scare you out of it, just be prepared and know what could go wrong before you walk that road....

For the STD pics go here

http://www.skinchoice.com/std_pictures.h...

For the childbirth and delivery pics go here.

http://www.sciencebasedbirth.com/CEO%20S...

Every one thinks this can't happen to them but by the time you realize it can.....you in on the those pics!!!!

Answer 9

I am someone who can totally relate! And YES it's completely normal to think about it! I recently felt the same way. I had been dating a guy on and off for almost 4 yrs. I was 12 when we started dating- I'm now about to be 17. We have had break-ups through out the years but no longer than a few months. And he has really been "wanting some" but I didn't feel that at our age it was appropriate, although I was urgeing to experience s*x- but i knew i didn't want to become pregnant and i knew my parents would be disappointed. so i held off! Until my 16th birthday, i could not hold out another year. and now I look back on it and I wish would have waited- cause it's not like it seems.

For the record, the first time is VERY painful and not really enjoyable! and that experience should be shared with someone you REALLY care for & have time invested with; not just a crush or a new boyfriend!

So, just wait! Believe me it's worth it!

Just cause everybody's doing it..it's still not what's cool rite now for our age! hope this helps

Answer 10

you have to be able to handle the consequences (good/bad) that come along with the decision to have/not have s*x. put it this way, if you had no one else to rely on but yourself, and given all that can happen based on your decision to have (or not) have s*x, what would your answer be? this truly is an mature decision. good luck.

Answer 11

you ca n have it,very common

do not think too much