Ready to leave my significant other after 6 years?

Question

I have been in a relationship 6 years we are not married, we have a son togetgher and I have a daugher before we met and to me we just do not get along. I do not trust him. He will work and bring home is pay check but he is lazy around the house. I take care of all the bill's (with both of our checks), I work full time, pick up the kids from daycare wash the clothes, cook, clean the house, wash my truck in/out etc.... I am TIRED I feel like what does he do. He cannot cook. Does not know how to wash clothes, acts like he cannot take care of the bills. What should I do. I tell him that I am sick of this lop-sided relationship we do not communicate. What should I do please give me some advise.

Answer 1

Dont cook for him, dont wash his clothes, dont pay his bills even with his money, and he will learn sooner or later!

Answer 2

Make sure you are ready to leave before you actually make the move.  That is really the only advice I can give you because obviously you have to make the decision on your own to leave.  You said you guys dont communicate what have you done to try and fix that?  My husband and I had the same issue and I really went out of my way to fix it so that we would communicate because I knew I wanted to stay in my marriage.  I started telling him when things he did that would bother me even if it was something small; only I would try and make it not sound like nagging.  I started meeting him at the door asking about his day.  It took awhile but he got the picture and reciprocated.  Now I'm not saying things are perfect cause we still argue but it's better.

Answer 3

instead of telling him your sick of it, try getting him to help you cook and clean so you can teach him how to do the things he obviosly was never taught to do. Remember behind every great man there's an even greater woman!  

Answer 4

Kick him to the curb. A relationship is a two way street.