Really confused.?

Question

I just had a baby 10days ago the babys daddy & me arnt together atleast,I dont think we are Im not sure.Anyways when the relationship started everything was great we did everthing together,life was great he even took my kids w/us & spent time w/them as I did w/his.Then we moved in together.I was pregnant.After two weeks we had a big fight over nothing.I was sick oneday & didnt cook it ended up being bigger then either of us wanted it to be, I left.I didnt talk to him much during the pregnacy,he had another girl pregnant w/in 2months after I left.I was mad.I went out w/him a week before my son was born,I dont know why.Too many girls called him,I thought it wouldnt bother me,but it hurt.I didnt call him when I went into labor,my mom called his mom after the baby was born,he came to see him & says he knows hes his.We have seen alot of eachother,lastnight he ask me what I wanted I said the way it was before,he said ok,but he called me lastnight & when I called back his phone was off

Answer 1

Right now the best thing now is take care of the baby and yourself.  Get a lawyer and sue him for child support and tell the other woman to do the same. It hurts but you will can do a lot better. Make him pay for the play.

Answer 2

focus on your newborn. raise that child to be the best he can be, and always be there for him. his dad sounds like a loser, and you should move on.... youve got alot to live for now so you should do it and do it well. set an exaple for your child and help him to succeed in life... and maybe somewhere along the road youll find another man. a GOOD man

Answer 3

Stay away you and your kids dont need a player like that in yur life, when his other baby is born I be the will wanna be around that baby and the mum  too

Answer 4

don't waste your time with that dog. Men like that need one thing. To be neutered. I'm sorry you an your son will have to go through that. I think it would be not the worst idea to drop him once and for all. And find that baby a real daddy.

Answer 5

you deserve someone better. and it could be really hard hoping for that someone to be him someday. things will not change overnight, especially with the responsibilities he got on his back.

Answer 6

Don't waste your time on him. He is going to keep on playing you as long as you will let him.

Answer 7

You may want to move on.  He's a man w***e and won't stop.