Really young and pregnant??help??

Question

so im 15 and pregnant with a 17 year old boy who wont even talk to me's baby....he doesnt even believe im pregnant....but now my mom is pregnant and she is due 4 days after my 16th b-day and 2-9 days from when my baby is born. everyone says to tell ur parents but how do you tell ur mom who could hav baby the same day as 15 yr old daughter??

help!!!

im know im stupid and made a mess please dont remind me; i need opinions and insite.comments.thoughts watever just something.

p.s.

we did use a condom!

Answer 1

your mum should understand

my mom is 14 wks 2 day s until  she has a baby

my two friends have kids one was 14 when she had twin girl and 1 of my friends had a little boy

one of my friends who is 17 shes having triplets in 2 wks

also you really need to get the 17 yr old father involved would love to know how far you are along

Answer 2

well you need to tell her, she might be more understanding than if you hide it from her, and you could just give it up for adoption, but i'm sorry to hear this, this is a hard thing to deal with, just tell her the baby deserves that much, dont get an abortion (the baby can already feel and has finger nails allready) just tell your mom you know it is the right thing to do and even though it will be hard it will be worth it.

Answer 3

you and your mum could go away on a holiday and your mum could come back with "twins" lol, just dont tell people your pregnant. or you could just keep it yourself

Answer 4

tell your mom...is the best thing to do.

Answer 5

Well, you have 2 choices here. You can tell her or you don't tell her. I think telling her would be the best way for her to find out. You could tell her you want to go for a drive and just talk. This way it's just you and your mom. After you've talked about different things, then tell her. Let her know that you know you've made a mistake. Be prepared to know what you want to do with the baby. If you choose to keep it, tell her your plans for you and the baby. If you're putting it up for adoption, let her know that you need her help in finding an adoption agency. Be prepared for her to ask questions and also be prepared for her to freak out a little bit. Or, you could just wait and see if she notices your baby bump. That might freak her out and then you'd be in a whole lot of trouble

Answer 6

go up to your parents tell them you made a huge mistake and they might hate you for it but that your extremly sorry and dont know what to do anymore and just tell them your pregnant. its how i did it.

Answer 7

u gotta just tell her...shes gonna find out one way or another.....

Answer 8

No one can help you now. You should have helped yourself.

Well, you were adult enough to have s*x knowing full well condoms break.

Be adult enough to face the consequences of your actions. You're a mommy now, you can't be afraid of your mommy.

Apparently your character judging skills aren't what they need to be. Of course no 17 year old boy is going to want to be a daddy. No choice now.

Answer 9

tell ur mom

Answer 10

You need to tell your mom no matter the stakes.  She will be the one to give you the best advice.  Remember the longer you wait the harder it is.  You would be surprised at how moms can take the news.  I won't lie, she may be upset at first.  That would be a normal reaction.  But in the long run you telling her now is for the best.

Answer 11

you sure picked the right guy eh, anyways, go up to your mom, and FORCE YOURSELF to blurt out the words, "mom, i'm pregnant and i am due the same day as you!" and from other people's stories i've heard(most) at first they'll be shocked and hate you, but as time passes, they'll learn to accept it and support you.

Answer 12

it dont matter if u use a condom u was still was to young to be doing that and all i can say is i jus got 2 points lol but on the real there is now good way you can tell your mom but u have to and face the warth

Answer 13

You should watch Father of the Bride 2...it's quite funny and similar to your situation.

Just tell her...she'll help regardless of her own situation.  Good luck.

Answer 14

I wa young when i had my first baby. I was only 16 yrs old. I was soo scared to tell my grandparnets. I waited till my grandmother found out when i was 5 months. it is better to sit down with her and explain to her. it might hurt her in the begin. but she will still love even the same. yall can even go buy maternity clothes together. cheer up honey. i promise it is not the end of the world. and as far that boy. forget him u can make it. but he decides to come do not deny him his baby. i will give u my email and if you need anything hit me up [e-mail] . ur friend...

Answer 15

Have you watched Juno?  Your situation compares to the girl in this movie.  She thought about the pros and cons of the pregnancy and she made the right choice in the end for her.  I agree with all the others.  You should tell your mom.  She is your alliance.  The only one you should turn to at a time like this.  Im sure she will be upset but at the same time she is your mom and you need to talk to her and involve her reguardless of your decision.  Just think about what you want to do first and go to her with an educated declaration of what you want to do about it after you inform her.  Im sure she will see your regret in your choices but maybe doing research and letting her know you have thought thru all options and this is the way you would rather go.  Then ask her what she recommends.  I hope this helps you sweetie.  Im sorry this happened to you at such a young age.  However you have to face the consequences.  I just hope you would rather give it up to adoption to a couple who cant have children, rather than abortion.  The baby didnt ask to be put in this position.  You can always choose the couple whom you feel would best raise your child and give it the life you couldnt.  Good luck to you & God Bless You and the baby!!!

Answer 16

The longer you wait ..the harder it's gonna be ...confront your parents and get it over with ....sooner or later they're gonna find out anyway with your big belly ...plus it's not good for the baby that the mommy is stressing out so much ..so do it for the baby sake if you're planning on keeping it ....Good luck !

Answer 17

just tell her shes gonna find out anyway