My boyfriend and I have been off and on for a couple years. Once when we broke up, my "best friend" wanted to sleep with him... needless to say, she wasn't my best friend much longer. They didn't sleep together and we got back together pretty soon after. Him and her have hardly talked at all since then (almost 2 years ago now). Then ANOTHER friend of mine watned a 3-way and I said I wasn't interested... so she ASKED my boyfriend. I was incredibly offended and I stopped hanging out with her. She kept hanging out with my boyfriend though... Then when we broke up she was comforting him and not me. I was angry.
So tonight he was invited out by the 1st girl to play pool. Should I be jealous? Not to mention he's still friends with the 2nd girl. He has said several times that he's not attracted to either of them and I kinda believe him about girl #1 but not #2. He knows I don't like him hanging out with the 2nd girl but he still does. Not a lot but enough to annoy me. And it's generally when I'm working or busy so I couldn't join if I wanted to...
Plus he hangs out with a girl he dated during our latest breakup (we were apart about 6 months but still kept in contact and hung out a lot). He claims that's also as friends only. Most of his friends are girls... it's really frustrating.
He always says I'm the only one he wants but I really have a jealousy issue and I don't know how to get over it and just accept the fact that I'm going to have to deal with it "forever". I honestly trust him. I know he's not sleeping around but I know these girls can be flirty too. Even if he doesn't mean to, they flirt... It's annoying!
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