Where to start.....I've been dating my guy for almost 2 years now. In the past year, he has lost his father, his grandmother, and now yesterday, his best friend was struck by a drunk driver in a truck. His friend was driving a motorcycle with his girlfriend on the back, and both were killed. This is a lot of tragedy for anyone to handle within 1 year. His father passed in December right before Christmas, and then his grandmother less than a month later. He's 21 years old, and like most young men, he keeps his feelings mostly to himself. I mean, he cried for his father right after he passed (he was there with him when it happened) but that was it. And he didn't shed a tear when his grandmother passed, and now with his best friend, he's acting the same way. I know my boyfriend isn't heartless or anything like that, not even close! But like I said, when it comes to things like this, he just bottles up his pain. I know everyone deals with these things differently, but I'm afraid he's going to have a breakdown or something real soon. Also, since his father passed, he's been the man of the house, taking care of everything from going food shopping with his mother, mowing the lawn, taking out the garbage, paying bills becuase money is so tight with only his and his mothers income. I know most guys do this stuff anyway from time to time, but he lives like a 35 year old and he never gets to go out and just have a good time. His father was sick for about 3 years before he passed and my boyfriend never had the childhood he should have had. I'm just really concerned for him and if anyone has any advice on what to do or how to do it, that would be great. Do I talk to him about it? Leave him alone? Should I do something for him? Thanks in advance for any help.
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