Recently,My fiance and I watched a movie that revolved around a schoolteacher paddling her students[all adults

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with no other elements of sexuality besides the occasional rubbing of behinds with the paddle between the whacks. So after wards she strongly encouraged me to join her in a "reenactment" ,resulting with me still wearing my jacket and tie from work earlier,and her looking very "authoritarian" in a knee length skirt and white blouse buttoned all the way up..She then got out a fraternity paddle ,borrowed from a friend of hers,told me to assume the position and gave me at least 15-20 whacks ,until I heard her drop the paddle and then she pulled me onto the bed and we had the best and longest lovemaking since our honeymoon 7 years earlier. My question is; Although this isn't my thing,should I go along with this behavior,or stop it now in case it will only get stranger and more dangerous in the future?

Answer 1

I thought you had to get married to have a honeymoon.

Answer 2

Lol, this is normal, just go with it.

Answer 3

Just sit back and enjoy the ride! Lots of couples get into kinky stuff. But I do wonder why you call her your "fiance" and then refer to a honeymoon seven years ago.

Answer 4

No, there's no reason for you to discontinue this behaviour as its normative and is not an indication of an underlying pathology.

Kinky s*x and that sort of thing is well within the bounds of normative behaviour and it doesn't suggest that it'll lead to anything utoward, per se (assuming that it's consensual and that no physical harm is being inflicted in the process).

What's confounding in this matter is that you remain engaged following your honeymoon 7 years ago; now that's not normative behaviour.

Answer 5

if it works for you, go for it.

Answer 6

Yay! You're kinky! Go right along with it - and check out some books on the subject, like SM101 and Different Loving. Spanking is the most common kink there is! Buy different paddles and have a good time :D