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Recently divorced after 30 yrs. Lost everything, Working hard to start over, will a good woman want to marry?

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There was no infidelity on my part I'm not sure about her. She's not a bad person and neither am I and we both made mistakes but hers financially really hurt me. I don't hold any grudges, whats done is done. I'm trying to start over but at 60 its going to be a challenge. Eventually I would like to remarry but not looking to be taken care of just want to be happy and make someone happy. Do you think a good woman around my age will want to marry me?

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of course! Because you know you can loose her so you will be better this time around to her and pay attention to her.
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why did you get divorced ??...there must have been something wrong why your divorced..good luck...
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You will find out that it will be a challenge.
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Dude - I am a woman aged 53, and I guarantee, if something happened to end my marriage, there would be NO WAY I would consider getting married again.  I would consider living with a guy, but as far as having to answer to another person ever again, for get it!

Gone are the days of struggling - I sure would not wish to do that again at my age.  I want to GET OUT, travel, and do things without having to get "permission".

Of course anything is possible, so no doubt some nice stable woman may like being married and want to do it again - so don't give up the search!
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Some people never learn.
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i def. think so.
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Absolutely! Get yourself involved in some clubs or activities and you will certainly meet people. As I have heard people say before...."you are divorced not dead!" Go out there and have a great time and meet you a nice lady!

Good luck!
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Ahh im sorry. But dont remarry. Well you can if you want, but its not going to be worth it. But whatever. Have fun being single.
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Lost everything and you want to get married again? you deserve to lose everything and more.
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There is someone out there for everyone. You will find tha special one but while you shouldnt be "looking' for her, you also have to be in positions to be seen and heard. Hopefully your a social guy. Get out there and socialize.
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it's all about personality and yes your past does count but since you stated that there was no infidelity, then i think you're ok. It's about personality
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sure i dont see why not.try match.com best of luck
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sounds like your out here soliciting more than asking a question , who knows what people will do
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do you think a good woman around your age will want to marry you??? you have to believe, have faith, and be willing to move your feet when God order your steps
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Of course you will find someone special.  Especially because most women around your age are really just looking for companionship and to enjoy life.  You no longer have to worry about having babies (unless you marry a much younger woman).  It's about settling down and enjoying life.  Most women have gotten some good wisdom and experience so there may be lots to talk about and do.

I think it's such a great age.  You are hopefully past all the c**p youngsters go through, plus after 30 years of marriage...I'm sure you have learned alot about marriage, etc. and can learn from the mistakes and not turn the divorce into baggage.

Financially --- well again that would depend on who you get with.  Some women at that age expect to travel alot since there are no more kids to take care off, etc.  So expect to have a social fund.  Then other women expect you to have some type of retirement or savings to be somewhat stable.  I mean soon you'll retire so what do you have in place?  Do you have to be rich?  No, but most women expect a comfortable level of stability so she doesn't get stuck out in the cold.

The best advice I can give you is to BE HONEST with what you want up front.  Hopefully she'll do the same.  Did you try eHarmony?
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of course!! Don't be one of those negative people though that complains that their life is horrible. That is the most annoying thing to listen too....enjoy what life you actually have left! You were married for 30 years be grateful for that..some people don't even get to experience that! Do what makes you happy and im sure that you will find someone who will feel the same as you! good luck
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