Recently my friends sorta left me and now i have this good friend..but now i have a frend and i cnt trust her?

Question

i dnt know how to regain the trust i really love her but the thing is i get mad when she wants to hang with others i sound like an idiot but i cnt help it

Answer 1

Hey jilly dont sweat it okay, if you are left out by your other friends and she is you only friend then you start inviting her places to do things, how can she hang with others if you two are hanging out? as far as regaining her trust all you have to do is give it some time because eventually she will start to trust you again, dont get mad at her for wanting to hang out with other friends, and yes you can help it. If she decides she wants to hang with someone else then you say oh cool sista i ll catch you later, learn to have fun by yourself, sound lonely but it really isnt get to know you better so that you can improve the kind of friend that you are. Good friends are not insecure about there place with other friends, if she is a good friend then know that you are a good friend to her even if there was a problem in the past but give her some space and give her time to realize that you are indeed a true friend. If you love her she isnt going anywhere and you arent either so dont crowd her. I also suggest you drop the other friends who are leaving you out, dont even make it a point to acknowledge that you are being left out. Make new friends! there are tons of peopel in the world and alot of them need good friends to help them and to help. Dont be shy start doing things abnormally, there isnt only one kind of friend you can have, think outside of the box, maybe make friends with the jamacian girl who eats bananas everyday for lunch or the puerto rican guy whos eyes are green, you know there is one thing i have learned

SHOW YOU SELF FRIENDLY AND YOU WILL HAVE FRIENDS :) God bless and i am sure that you will be just fine dont make it a huge deal just thank God for new friends and keep your good friend in your prayers

Answer 2

You need to make more friends....diversify. As you grow up you realize you can't have it all in one friend. You need a friend to just talk to, you need another one to hang out with, you need one who calls on ur bluffs n bs. Try making her other friends your friends too so that y'all can hang out together. You dont wanna appear too clingy coz u might push your new friend away.

I know how it feels to be left out by ur best friend. Sometimes its what it is. Join some clubs instead so that you always have people to do stuff with. Volunteer. Keep yourself occupied. Good luck!