Recurring Bad Dream About Husband While Pregnant...

Question

Every night I keep having weird dreams that really mean nothing at all, But one of these dreams include one or two that are recurring every night. It's not the SAME dream but they all end up the same way.

A) starts out with me away from my husband and being with some other person, sexually.

B) I try to call my husband on the phone, and my fingers can't touch the numbers, or the phone is too slippery - either way this WHOLE part of this dream is me trying to get a hold of my Husband

C) My husband ends up leaving me for another woman, or dating two women at the same time, it's usually a co-worker.

Actually its ALWAYS a co-worker.

I noticed that before my husband joined the army, I always had "adultery" dreams. After He joined, I NEVER had these dreams.

And now that I found out he's getting out.. ( Which we're so excited about ) These dreams came back.every night.

I know that when you're pregnant your hormones make you have crazy dreams. I read on alot online. I know ALOT about dreams.

I know what these dreams mean, but this isn't what I need to know.

PLEASE help me get rid of them. I'm so tired of them.

I hate going to sleep at night. I'm so over it.

PS. My husband and I are perfect now, nothing going on

it's not a sign or anything.. it's just me being stupid.

But I just want to get rid of them, Please help.

Answer 1

I'm going to tell you the 'same old thing' then, because it's going to have to become something that you know from the inside and from your subconscious as well as you know it from your conscious mind ... all any dream can ever be is your subconscious trying to figure out what your conscious (awake) mind can't or won't work out.  In your case, you are having these dreams because he's changing his employment again soon ... and all of that 'adultery' he's having in your dream is really just him 'doing what he needs to do' to do whatever job he has correctly.  Since you don't know exactly what he does when at work, you think of this as being 'adultery' ... but that also tells me that the two of you are extremely close and talk a lot, and that you will feel better as soon as he starts work, because he'll be talking to you about what he's doing at work.  Right before you go to bed, 'meditate' on this ... that your silly (yes, think the word silly, because it's very important if you want these dreams to stop) mind is just taking 'flights of fancy' because it doesn't know ... but that you are a good solid woman who is in love with a man who loves her ... think this five times, slowly, before you go to sleep and the dreams should go away or at least wake you up at night.  

Answer 2

Pregnancy seriously messes with your head.  Your dreams are normal if not touching a bit on some insecurities you may have.. If you dream about taking an axe to your hubby or one of his "co-workers", then i might start to worry.  Don't fret. While I was pregnant I had numerous dreams about my husband in all kinds of compromising situations and even myself in a few. It is normal and just keep reassuring yourself that you have nothing to worry about.  Sweet Dreams.

Answer 3

It Means Your Husbands Sperm is So Good That Other Spirits in the Universe Desire Him So Much and Are a Bit Jealous That You Got His Seed First. Have A Very Happy Baby!!!  

Answer 4

Your dream is a reaction to your husband coming home. The fact that (in the dream) you can't contact him symbolizes that you have felt alone in this pregnancy and haven't had him there. You've probably become pretty good at taking care of your own needs and now that he is coming home you are hoping (but worried) that the two of you will get along well. The other woman in your dream represents your own emotions and worry that he will not be able to fill the emotional needs that you have independently filled so far. Hopefully everything will work out. Just give each other some time. Congratulations on your husband coming home and your new baby .

Answer 5

Your husband is the focus of your dreams because you are pregnant.

Its his fault, he gets to do other things while you suffer, some s**y coworker will steal him while you feel fat and ugly.

These are all unconscious thoughts and go along with the thrill of being pregnant and the joy you share with your husband at the new life you will share.  Lets be clear he is innocent.  Your dreams are about your feelings not his actions.  Many women dream about killing, in a very tortuous way, their husbands or of castrating them.  The poor guys have nothing to do with this, its not their fault that you have to take on the hormone shifts and frequent urination and uncomfortableness of pregnancy.  But we blame them anyway.  

You can't get rid of them but they will have less impact if you just laugh them off as 'only dreams" it is never good to try to interpret or give any meaning to dreams when you are pregnant.

Tell your husband you love him and let him rub your back or feet in penance.