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Question

I'm 18 and my bf is 20. I'm a virgin but he isn't. We plan 2 have s*x soon but I'm really nervous. He's only had s*x once but I'm still really scared cuz he's way more experienced even tho it was just once he did it. How do I feel more comfortable w/ him?

Answer 1

Well, experienced or not, the more pressing question than ''being comfortable'' would be, are you sure you want to do this? Are you absolutely positive?

Once you lose that virginity, or worse, get pregnant, there is no turning back.

Having s*x for the first time is going to hurt. Like heck. You could ask him, on the night/day you are doing it, to consider going slow and gentle for your sake. Nervousness is natural to feel, indecisiveness isn't.

If you still feel unsure, you don't have to have s*x. You have the choice to say no.

Just make sure if you are going ahead with this, that you use proper protection. That is a must.