='[ help..(please read)?

Question

Im 3 months pregnant..and basically already attached to my baby, but im 15. Im in love with some one and it was a mistake but me and my boyfriend told his parents and i said i wasnt going to tell my mom. But eventually i needed to because i really wanted my baby and i thought she would support me because we are close, just 2 nights ago i told her and i was scared to death. she was upset and she talked my my boyfriends parents and they are making me get an abortion because they say its to expensive and i honestly think i can do it but they arent giving me a say in what happens to my own baby so sence my mom said i cant have it i have been extremely depressed and i know its going to get worse once the abortion is over..my boyfriends parents are coming over tonight and they all are going to explain to me why i cant have it but no matter what they say i still want it =[ i have been suicidal before and i got over it, im afraid ill go back any suggestions..=/

Answer 1

well, i am very sorry.

& yes, you did make a mistake, but it is your baby....you should be able to do what you want to do with your own flesh and blood.

i really don't know what to tell you, but it has to be your decision. i mean, i do understand your parent's concern about the expenses, but they should be even more concerned about your "suicidal self"......

i really dont know...this sounds like a really though situation....

you are living under their roof, and so, i see why there is sort of a....responsibility (if you will) to listen to them.

i really dont agree with abortion....

and i want you to finish high school...you can even be home schooled. (bc u will go through changes and...it will be though walking through the halls in a normal hs pregnant..lol)

i wish you all the luck!

& if you do have the baby, congrats!

Answer 2

honestly you are not responsible enough to have a baby and raise it on your own so right off the bat your involving others and not giving them a choice but to take care of it if you decide to keep it.  its that simple.  but theres no sense at all in abortion, not when there are too many couples out there that cannot have children.  i am not sure about where you live but even though you are 15, you are still protected by laws and you do not have to abort this baby if you do not choose to.  you need to research it for the state you live in.  I wish you the best of luck!  Do not go through with something you will regret the rest of your life, but make sure you do the right thing no matter how painful it may be, for the sake of your unborn child.  =)  

blessed be~

Answer 3

Honey I know you're fifteen years old. I know you're still a kid. I know you are scared out of your wits. What they are telling you is true from "their perspective" okay?

  I'm not going to tell you whether you should or should not have this baby or whether or not you should have an abortion. What I DO want to tell you is that NO ONE can MAKE you have an abortion. You are pregnant and because of that you have rights and so does that baby. No one can decide you're going to have an abortion but YOU. If you don't believe me, then get on the phone when no one is around and call your local Health Department. They will get you help..help so that YOU can make the right decision, for you AND for your baby.