A Question involing Disipline?

Question

right, if you do spank, or if you don't (just imagine you do) if your kid begged and pleaded and swore they were sorry even if they done it before and it caused a kid in the class to have (i started a fight, i didn't fight but kinda struck a cord with two people) some bruises would you go easier on them?

Answer 1

no, you used verbal abuse  its the same as causing physical harm.please understand this before you are of  jail age.probably would not matter you should have known better in the first place you deserve the punishment for not thinking of others first.if you were the one with the bruises would you try to get the one who started it in trouble??sweetie just be honest take your punishment and LEARN FROM IT.

Answer 2

I don't  understand the question myself, but It sounds like you are asking that if a child says "I'm sorry i won't do it again" and does how do you deal with it.   All you can do explain why it is wrong and tell them why it is important that they do not do it again.  I am sure if it continues there is an underlying problem that needs to addressed, maybe with a school counselor.   Maybe get with the parents of both children and talk it out and find out why this keeps happening..

Answer 3

No it absolutely would not matter. Of course you are going to say you're sorry and promise up and down that you won't do it again. I don't spank but my parents did and if we did something that deserved a spanking there was nothing we could say or do to get out of it. Especially if it was something we knew was wrong and had done before, then the punishment was usually worse. Their philosophy was if you knew it was wrong and you are so sorry then you should not have done it in the first place and now you have to suffer the consequences.

Answer 4

I dont really understand the question...I think you are asking if you started a fight between two people and you said you were sorry would I go easier on them because they did not fight and because they said they would not do it again. No I would spank verbal and physical is diffrent but the emotional effects can be the same. If you start out verbally abusing more than likly it will grow to violence.