A friend told me that....?

Question

she has rape fanticies. Of course she doesn't actually want to be raped but she told me that she get some sort of kick out of it. I'm really worried about her. She's only 15.

What could it be? How can i help her, I'm really worried for her.

Answer 1

'She's really intelligent and quite a feminist' actually means she is naive and arrogant, especially at that age!

I agree with the first answer, she wants attention!

Answer 2

It is just hormones. She should be fine.Just follow your instinct.You will know if there is really a problem!! Good luck!

Help me with my question!!!:):):)http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 3

I hate to say this but perhaps she is a victim of Sexual Abuse past or current.

Answer 4

at 15, probably attention is all.

Answer 5

Some girls get turned on by it, there's nothing wrong there.

Answer 6

shes probly just likes the idea of being dominated its nothing to worry about altho 15 is a bit young to actuly do any fantasies shes got loads fo time to explore that stuf when shes finished school!

Answer 7

there couldve been a past tramatic experience really early in her life, she needs to talk about things like this to a therapist, theyre really the best at interpeting such things.

Answer 8

i think she needs a guy in her life. one that wont rape her but will be there for her. than mabe she wont fantcise about that anymore

Answer 9

when i was young i thought the only way id lose my virginity was by rape. i was wrong of course, but i did fantasize it a little.

you're never too young to be interested in BDSM

suggest the Kushiel's Legacy series by Jacqueline Carey. it will give her fantasies a literary outlet. i love those books!

Answer 10

tel her to go see a s*x doctor or a therapist

but she needs help,,quick!

Answer 11

get it over iwht and rape her

Answer 12

If you are really that worried about it, I would talk to her mom about it.  Or maybe talk to your mom and she can talk to her mom.  That is disturbing to have fantasies like that, but if she ever tries to live out this fantasy, then she could be in big trouble!!  She will be mad at you for telling, but believe me it is for her own good.

Answer 13

i don't know

that sounds serious

Answer 14

Normal.  It's the idea of a man taking control of you and telling her what to do, etc. that is what turns her on.  I'm sure not necessarily a violent rape is what she is talking about.

Answer 15

Trust me she is fine, she is growing up and will explore different things, she will soon grow out of it. It will fade and she will forget about it eventually.

Answer 16

these are actually normal and a lot of women have them, they are just fantasies and nothing more like you said she doesnt actualy want to be raped, but she likes the idea of beng over powered and rough/forced upon s*x.  theres is nothing you need to do, she is fine there is nothing wrong with these fantasys. Ive read a book about fantasys that young people have it was done in the 50s! and these are normal.

please! dont talk to her mum or yours! dont tell anyone she told you this in confidence, if you cant handle it jjust tell her and  say sorry you dont understand it but dont be negative about it.

Answer 17

People fantasize about a lot of things sexual but it does not mean that need a therapist or any other help. Surely you are not suggesting she wants to be raped.

I fantasized about having s*x with Chris Evert and others when I was 19 whether they wanted to or not and doing allsorts. I have s*x with 20 women a day in my mind but that is it and it is not due a therapist or anyone else.

Leave the girl alone with her fantasies. ? Every contributor to this question has them so let's not get carried away!

Answer 18

I seriously  don't think it is anything you need to worry about. Its just a fantasy. What are you going to do? Tel her parents? Its not a big deal. Its not like wearing a sign that says rape me.

Answer 19

It's actually very normal for women to have rape fantasies. Of course almost all of them would never, NEVER want it to happen in real life. People like to fantasize about things that they would not want to actually act out in real life. Or maybe they would want to act out the fantasy with someone they trust and it's not actually rape, it's just pretend. You may fantasize about being an adventurer deep in the forest, but may not want to actually risk your life by going and doing it.

Answer 20

she probably doesnt mean full on rape, but she's like to be "taken" in a safe environment by a guy she loves.  Thats understandable.