About the man of my dreams?

Question

at the age of 16 i fall inlove with a man who is 18yrs older than me and now that iam 20yrs of age, iam still deeply inlove with him.thou he started dating someone last year and she knows me but i didn't tell her that i have a crush on the man and that we have been dating for 4 yrs since i was 16. do you guys think that he loves me?

i feel like going away, to another country and just try to forget about him but i just cannot leave him as well. i don't know if he cares as for me as much as i do care for hi. he is 38yrs and iam 20yrs,i love him and my prayer has been to be with him but i am scared it will never happen.

Answer 1

You need to comunicate with him!  First of all, if he is dating someone else why would you think he loves you, if he loved you he would be with you!  Second, I dont have a problem with dating people older than you, I am 24 and my fiance is 32, but you have to be on the same page... you have to communicate... it doesnt sound like you are doing that.

Answer 2

Run Run Away. This guy is a  freaking pedofile. If u guys do stay together and end up having kids, he will molest them. There is absolutely no excuse for a 34 year old man to be with a 16 year old girl. That is sick and wrong, and he should be in jail.

Answer 3

try someone near to u age for love

they mostly to grows old with you

Answer 4

um if ask him i guess idk 38? that mad old

Answer 5

Since you are now 20, you can approach him and tell him your feelings.  Who knows, he might have feelings for you as well.  Don't be disappointed if he does not.

Answer 6

If you were 16 and he was 34 when you started dating, HE should be in prison.