Abusive girl!! PLEASE HELP!! ?

Question

There was this girl i used to stare at frequently and my sister thought i liked her and accused me of being obsessed and stalking her. To be honest, this couldn't be farther from the truth, but since my sister has a lot of influence (she has a lot of s*x) a lot of people listened to her and feed into her bull****. Now this ridiculous RUMOR has followed me every single place i go, preventing me from ever leading a normal life or finding a descent girl. I don't want to psychically hurt my sister, i was raised better then that, but i would like her to shut her mouth and stop spreading bogus rumors that are destroying my life. I'm incredibally frustrated, and am probally going to off myself. Suicide seems like the only option beucase i have been tagged with garbage and the only place i can escape it is in death. What would you do if you were in my postion? Any ideas other then suicide?

Answer 1

Rumors hurt, especially when they are coming from someone that is close to you and you care about. However, the wonderful thing about rumors is the fact that they are soon replaced with other rumors...sad, but true. I had someone spread terrible lies about me in our small town, someone that said they loved me, and over time I took the high road and now he is the one that people are talking about and I didn't have to do or say anything!  What goes around, comes around. I hope your sister is able to live with what she has done to you in a few years when she is more mature. Sometimes, just staying strong and not saying anything will say more about your character than you could ever say. Not everyone believes the rumors, it is just something to talk about for awhile. Take the high road on this matter, don't stoop to her level. There will be people that look up to you for that and you will be more sensitive to others in your life. Best of everything to you and Stay Strong!!!!

Answer 2

how about a psych ward? u have some major issues!

Answer 3

First of all... suicide? This situation is bad, but it will pass. Don't even think about it.

Honestly, You  need to TALK  to your sister!! Tell her how you feel, but don't be mean about it. If she doesn't listen, then start getting a little bit more persistant.. but, obviously.. don't hit her. She'll ruin your life even more if you do that. Be the bigger person and don''t spread rumors around about her. Good luck!

Answer 4

You don't live your life for others you so it for you. you need to adopt the i don't give a **** attitude and believe me all of their bullshit will pass like gas. good luck! oh yeah! s***w that w***e of a sister, the only thing she knows is D**K!!

Answer 5

when you slash your wrists remember it down the road not across the street. if you gonna do it do it right.  

Answer 6

Why dont you prove to people that you are not that way, anyways s***w these people is it really worth dying over, NO!! just go out and have fun, you are worried over spilled milk.

Answer 7

get even with your sister, there are lots of jokes you can play on her without her even knowing you had anything to do with it.

Answer 8

spread a rumour about your sister - like you saw her getting gang banged by 4 men in the car park or woods. show her how it feels.

also study hard so you get a good job and away from where you are.

Answer 9

Try to talk to your sister of what is she doing and how you feel.  She is still your sister.  Because of the fame and a lot of influence she forget of what  is she doing to you that hurt you and annoyed you.  Be honest and talk to her,  It might help you.

Answer 10

Please do not kill yourself. IT'S A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY SITUATION. Do you have any relatives that are kind of far away that you could live with? I had to stay at my grandparents for the summer because of the drama and rumors girls were spreading about me.... and then I came back for the school year but I would suggest you stay with a relative for the entire school year. Don't end your life because of this.