Advice on my boyfriend???

Question

Me and my boyfriend planned a cruise about 6 months ago and the cruise is Monday, and things were really, really good, he was so excited to go. Well we started to fight everyday and I mean a lot of fights. Well as time went on and we fought more, he started to lose interest. When i asked about it and he said, "Im not looking forward to it because all we will do is fight and I dread it" and saying stuff like that but I assured him it wouldn't. He told me (at the time) if we didn't fight for a while he would get interest back. Well he keeps thinking we fight everyday but I don't think we do. So we got into it today and I hung up on him and he says, "If we have a bad time and fight on this cruise, when we get back we are breaking up, Im tired of fighting..."

Its miserable, and the cruise is on Monday. I wanna have a good time. Help, what do I do??

Answer 1

If he's going to be that way, then get rid of him. He sounds like a bad boyfriend anyway.

Answer 2

Sounds to me as though he is looking for a way out of the cruise. Seriously, if you are always fighting why do you even want to go away together ?  Tell him the cruise is off and if he changes his mind and if you still want to go then enjoy your cruise together, but if he is happy that you ended the trip , go with a good friend and take a long break from this dying relationship, or have some self respect and you end it.  Good luck !

Answer 3

He dosen't want to be with you anymore! Be honest with yourself, do you want to be with you? Take the cruise, have fun, and meet someone new!!

Answer 4

He doesn't want to be with you anymore, leave him and go with a friend instead.  It may be tough to hear but don't try to drag it out and "save" your relationship.