All I want to know is?

Question

All I want to know is why is it such a bad idea to be friends with my fiance's ex wife?

Is it that no one in this world have been friends with there partner's ex?

All I want to do is get her to stop cursing at me, driving by my house throwing things. It will also give my fiance piece of mind knowing that I can do things to make him happy. He would also be able to see his son instead of us driving by hoping to get a look at him taking the garbage out.

Please I need some good advice. How can I get this woman to be my friend?

Answer 1

i am so glad that there are people in the world that want to do what is best for the child. however  don't hold your breath b/c it wont happen it never will either so  just make the best of it .

you are threat to her as his mother .. you are trying to move in on her territory .she will not move over.

you need to just be adults and talk only when the child is the subject ..

if she is not allowing your bf to see his child he needs to go to court and get a visitation / custody order . then she cant keep him from his dad .

Answer 2

Oh my God..would you get a clue already??! ! She won't be your friend because you're sleeping with her husband...you've ruined her family and her life

Answer 3

you're retarded

Answer 4

Did they divorce over you? If not, just sit down and write her a letter. Tell her how you feel.

Answer 5

It's not a bad idea to be friends with the ex.  It's just that your situation is F'd up & shady at best.  The woman comes over & throws things at you but you want to have a dinner party for her?  I would beat that chicks @ss without question.  That's why nobody gets you.  You make ZERO sense.  You don't explain yourself well.  The chick hates you so you decided that the BEST idea would be to call & tell her you're pregnant.  Now she drives by cussing at you, throwing things, following you on the street, and you're trying to come up with a menu for your party in her Honor.  Yeah okay.  Go with that.  Do you have a mental deficiency we should know about?  It's okay if you're slow I just think I should know that.

Answer 6

It's not a bad idea, it's a f****n' stupid idea.  Can I have my 10 points now, please?

Answer 7

Sounds like the EX is very angry. Did he leave her for you? If that's the case then it's probably not going to happen.

My best advice is to be nice - no matter what.

Answer 8

stop worrying about it.. that's how.. she'll hate you until she doesn't. and no1 wants to be friends with their man's ex until that man becomes your ex.. then the relationship is based on something in common, both of yo hating the same man

Answer 9

Hot Girl,

I think that you have truly exhausted all (LEGAL) efforts to befriend this woman.

If you do not stop with the obsession to be her friend, I fear that we will soon see you on the evening news as a kidnapper who tried to force feed their prey....

Answer 10

You can't.  If she does not want to be your friend, then that is a battle you will not win.  Like I said before, record your conversation with her and show him she is the one in the wrong.  Also have cameras out watching her as she is driving past throwing things like that.  His eyes need to be opened.

Sounds like they both enjoy drama and looks like they both deserve each other.  If you get tired of the battle, find someone with no drama.

Answer 11

If this woman does what your saying, kissing her as* isnt gonna change anything.

You need to start docmenting and/or recording that woman then file for shared custody. Get witnesses if you can to her antics. The fact that she is withholding a father from his son just shows she cares about nothing but her own anger.  

Answer 12

i feel so bad for your son.  the way you keep repeating the same question over and over, your son is going to go frikkin crazy!  i bet you'll be like:  "what do you want to eat for dinner, honey?", then two seconds later:  "are you hungry?  i'd like to make dinner.  wanna suggest something?", then two seconds later:  "want to eat dinner, sweetie, i'm making your favorite?" ...then two seconds later; "i love the way spaghetti smells, aren't you hungry?  want some?"

then you'll be trying to figure out how your son became autistic and cross-eyed with ADHD!