Am I Missing Something Here?!?!?

Question

Ok so the other night my friends and I went out with each other the other day kind of on a triple date. 2 girl couples and this guy and me. This guy and I have been good friends for awhile, and I have for a long time felt feelings for him and it turns out that he had feelings for me. So the four girls were being dramatic and arguing among each other, while this guy and i were in our own little word spooning. Then we got horny all of the sudden and we started to make out and it ended up with a big hickey on his neck. Well that caused a little drama and we got quickly over it. Then yesterday was fine and we talked, but then this morning he comes and gives me a note stating that we need to talk about something. Then my friend came up and told me that he was crying and that he was nervous and confused about us. Well my friends told him no matter what relationship he will soon be in it is going to get confusing, and then he told her that he regretted that he gave me that note. Then he has been ignoring me, won't look at me, nor talk to me. If he regretted that he gave me that note than why is he acting this way? I'm so confused.

Answer 1

Well, outside the situation, it's hard to say because I don't know the guy, but it seems like he got scared off. He sounds like he's confused and has a lot of stuff going on. You can try and talk to your mutual friends about what's going on. You can try forcing him to talk to you. You can send him a message saying everything you feel, but risk never hearing back from him. Or you can suck it up and let it go, but it's so hard.

People can give you advice about what to do, but when it comes down to it, you're going to make your own decision and do what you've been feeling.

I don't think you're missing anything really. Relationships and "love" are always hard to figure out. This stuff happens all the time.

Good luck, hope you feel better.