Am I just being jealous?

Question

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months.

He added one of my friends on myspace and they talk through msgs and have each others numbers.

The other night me and my guy were hanging out and he said "Why don't we invite Sarah?".

She said to me yesterday Dan & I were talking and we should all go to the movie on Friday"

I said I can't make it but they could go ahead and go without me and she replied it'd be awkward (they've never met in person).

Am I being paranoid or is he secretly in love with her?!?!!?!?!?

Answer 1

WTF, okay I would be super paranoid. :( Is this a really good friend? OMG there are a lot of girls who don't care who's seeing who as long as they get their way, even if it means disrupting friendship and everything! BE CAREFUL AND VERY ALERT. These two people might not be as good for you as you think they are. If you're up for a confrontation, I'd confront your friend first.

I think saying that he's secretly in love with her is a bit too much but I think he might be curious about her.

Answer 2

i had the EXACT same problem with my bf as well. i was paranoid that he like my friends more than normal.

with your situation, i think you definitely have a right to be paranoid. it doesnt seem like he is extra interested in this girl, but if i were you i would probably keep an extra eye out and be alert, but dont take little things too seriously, or else you'll drive yourself crazy. it would also put a strain on your relationship and stop u guys from having fun, if you're always paranoid. you should be cautious, but more importantly learn to trust your bf. you should also remember that, at the end of the day, the girl that he's with and wants to be with is u!  

Answer 3

If this was me -- part of me would

say, Ashley, its fine yoru being paranoid.

But thats just a little part.

If they were Way To much in eachtohers business,

you have a right for sure, to be paranoid.

cuz your just may be absolutly right.