Am i going crazy please help?

Question

i keep having dreams and thughts of killing my parents/i am going into high school and i have been arguing with them lately and i want to stop thinking about this i would never hurt my parents and i love them with all my heart im really scared i am only 14 and i think im going insane pleasehelp i dont want to dream or think about this any more Banner.

P.S. i spent all day with my friends and i spent the night at my friends house and i didnt even once think about killing my parents in my sleep or while i was awake do you think this has to do with spending too much time alone. thanks for your answers and please ask your friends what they think Banner.

Answer 1

Pray in your dreams! I did once and I felt good in my dream. Them demons doin that to you boy!

Answer 2

Hey man,

Don't freak out, your gonna be okay

Things like this happen sometimes, your dreams are out of your control and your certainly not going to understand all of your dreams

You can try using a dream dictionary online, this might just mean that your getting older and your loosening your reliance on your parents to do everything for you,

as for the thoughts just remind yourself that your the one in control and your body is going to obey what you want it to do and think about , make sure when you do think the thoughts you remind yourself that it wont happen and they are just thoughts, if it continues you may wanna seek some help with a counselor theres tons

gl buddy

-Dan

Answer 3

a lot of people will probably tell you to talk to a counselor but i know you probably won't want to do that. i'm not saying it's a bad idea though, but i would say if you know someone older that you can trust like even someone just a few years older than you that you look up to maybe they would have some suggestions. they would know you better than i do so they could judge whether you spend too much alone time and suggest some things for dealing with your parents. if you are just starting high school, the arguments with the parents are only going to get worse. you will want to do more and more things that they dont want to let you do. you will disagree about whether you should be allowed to do things. sometimes it will be bad and you will hate them even though really deep down you love them and know they want the best for you. it helps to try to see where they are coming from and view them as people who have thoughts and feelings rather than just something that is there to ruin your life. try to think what you would do if you were in their situation. really you just have to accept that the next 4-5 years are going to be filled with a lot of arguing with the parents especially if you have strict ones and try to separate it in your mind so that you can hate their rules and decisions sometimes without hating them as people. but definitely get some feedback from older friends who have gone through these things!  

Answer 4

The very last though you think about before sleeping will be the thing you will most likely dream about.Think about something peaceful before going to bed.

Answer 5

Hello, Banner. Please try and relax. This sounds like teen versus the parents angst. It's nothing to fear. How many times have we all thought or said under our breath "I wish you were dead!" About our parents, and not meant it? I would wager a large number.

Same deal here. You're feeling more anxious than most would, because you have begun to interpret this as a sign that isn't healthy. You may even be afraid you will act on it... I get the feeling like you think you may even do something when sleepwalking, but that might just be me, not you.

You're not insane. The dream might persist because in waking life you aren't actually able to express your anger or frustration at your parents.It doesn't mean you will do something you are going to regret.

Just relax and maybe find a way of expressing your feelings toward your parents in a safe way- through writing, or any way you feel fits. You could even try talking to them if you feel there are important things you need to say to them.

All the best, and it's all quite normal once you stop worrying about it.  

Answer 6

don't even think about that dude i'm going through alot with my family look if you need someone to talk to you can email me at [e-mail] ey don't worry don't even think that just talk it out with your family !!