Am i overreacting in this situation?

Question

Ok i am overreacting i am sure but here it goes..this guy that i have a huge thing for and i have been talking on the phone every night for the past four months..recently we started seeing each other we went to the beach one day, then dinner and a movie and back to his house to watch the olympics...he was wrestling around with me and he did give me a quick kiss...then last night i saw him and we cuddled on the couch and then when i left he just gave me a hug not a kiss...he is a little down this week since his son left for school...today he called me when he was on his way to the store he was having his mom over for dinner...then he said we would talk later...i sent him a text message about two hours ago and have not heard from him...am i just over reacting? i just get worried because i am really falling for this guy and i am not sure if he is interested as more then a friend or not...what are your opinions more then a friend? and should i be worried if i did not hear from him?

Answer 1

Yes, it seems as though you're overreacting to the situation. He's having dinner with his mother and maybe he doesn't think its appropriate for him to whip out his cellphone while she is over. He may just be busy for the time being and like you said he is a bit down this week so just give him a little while to get back to his normal self.

Answer 2

I see that you asked this question about 40 minutes ago. For all any of us know here in Yahoo, he may have already answered your text by now. If not, it could be for any number of reasons. He could still be entertaining his mom and not heard your text come in, or he could be taking a nap, he could be in the shower...they could have decided to go some where, or (this has happened to me many times) for whatever reason I may not get a text that someone sends me until hours later. Don't worry about the small stuff. It will just make you feel unnecessarily anxious.  

Answer 3

yes, you are definately over reacting to this situation!!!! You are rushing into a relationship with someone who obviously has some issues and there is no sense in pressuring him or he will back away more.

Give him some breathing room, don't be expecting him to call or text back right away.

You don't need a man to make you complete....just take your time and make him come to you. It is very insecure on your part to throw so much of your emotional energy into one person like that...you don't even know him well enough to do that.

He does not feel the same way for you as you do for him so just back off and play it cool. Don't get so emotionally caught up, you should have more important things to do ===  

Answer 4

First I would just say you're over reacting.  He could have gotten tied up somehow/somewhere & didn't get a chance to get back to you yet.  It does sound like he's interested in you tho after this length of time & still going out on a regular basis.  Don't worry tho, I'm sure he has a good reason.  He's never given you anything else to worry about, I don't feel he'll start at this point in time.  Just don't worry, he'll call & everything w/be OK I'm sure...:)

Answer 5

let this guy go if he has'nt got the decency to reply to your message then he is probably trying to fob u off and he sounds like a real mummy's boy and i'm sure u can do better than that you are probably really pretty and can get any man u want so get some confidence and go do something for you ok

Answer 6

yes calm down he most likely has his phone in another room or charging while spending time with his mother

Answer 7

ur over reacting big time

he probably does like u

he just might hav gotten side tracked

or his mom stayed late

Answer 8

NO YOU'RE NOT. . . . . . but I'm friggin' psycho, stalker chick. . . maybe he's playing hard to get. Does he see other chicks? Why have you not had s*x yet?

Answer 9

Awh that sounds cute, I personally think that you should go on your instinct, maybe he's just a little nervous or worried about getting in a new relationship..

But i honestly think your just overreacting, give him a couple of days and im sure he'll call!

good luck!!:)