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I have some guy friends that are practically older brothers to me. I'm a tomboy, have tomboy friends and guy friends, and I'm taller than most people my age. (5'6") These guys are about 5'7"-6'6", could eat me if they really wanted to, and were there as I got my fourth blood infection. I have two 16 year old friends, both shorter than me, that they wrestle, they're about 14-18, I'm almost 14, and they don't wrestle me. I might get a "Please stop" from one guy. I might get in a miniature version of mini-wrestling with another. Another might try to give me a hug. I get regular warning to calm down from various people. (I have ADD and ADHD.) These guys know full well I got scraped, fell on a cactus (one guy saw what happened, but just barely. My hair was covering most of it.), got lost 4 times, (3 in the same day) and threw hacky sacks into creek after creek, down mountain by mountain all in the same week. (Okay, Only 3 feet down an impossible slope of one particular range, and it landed two inches from the creek, 30 feet past what I was aiming for.) How do I show these guys who's boss? (That's me, BTW.) These guys also may or may not know I nearly broke in the nose of an athletic eighth grader at school, and chucked a basketball at a guy as hard as I could that landed in a very bad place.

Do they not wrestle me because:

The whole blood infection thing

I'm a midget in comparison

I'm a baby in comparison

My mom would get very mad at them (One of these guys is my second cousin)

They don't want to hurt me

Their moms taught them not to hit a girl

They're flat out afraid of losing

And most of my weight is muscle. (I barely have any fat, but I'm 140.)

I DON'T CARE IF YOU ALMOST DIDN'T MAKE IT TO THE END.

I'm a writer with ADD. I'm good at strectching a sentence. I'm actually so good at it, I can practically chew the ears off of my friends.

And how does it take a person 5 minutes to read all of that?

I want more answers!

Pretty please ice cream with gummi bears on top?

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  1. Sorry. Let me try again. You want to show your big relatives whose boss, right? One thing you could do is take a few Judo lessons to learn how to nullify size difference in a fight. Judo is also called "the gentle way" so you won't have to break anyone's nose to defeat them.

    Otherwise, small people just have to work twice as hard to win the respect of larger people. "Small man's disease" is the label placed on diminutive men who act tough. For a woman, it's twice as hard because of the fear guys have in getting too rough with girls.

    Keep playing sports, keep working hard, and keep winning. They'll come around when they realize you aren't just acting tough.

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